Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

My boyfriend & I have been dating for about a 1yr now & we're very in love with each other. He's amazing, sincere & honest. I do see him as someone that I can marry in the future. However we have a large age gap. Im 20 & he is 37. When we met our ages were never discussed & eventually we went from accquaintences, to friends, to lovers. When he told me how old he was, it wasnt a matter to me because @ that point we were only friends but there was an attraction. He's a great guy. He is divorced. He married the mother of his children, but the marriage failed shortly after a year. Prior to that, they were together for 8 years as a couple. During this relationship they had four beautiful boys who are now between the ages of 7-12. My mom is very old fashion & stubborn as well as strict. She wants me to date HER dream guy not mine.I feel that she'll practically never accept anyone that I date, but I am very serious about him.How do I present him to her without her flipping out over his age?

2006-10-09 09:29:08 · 35 answers · asked by Roselyn 2 in Singles & Dating

penetrate him? I know it sounds disgusting, but we've experimented a lot, and this is something I would like to try. I'm afraid he would freak out if I tried it! Is this something some men do like? Does it pleasure them?

2006-10-09 09:28:51 · 17 answers · asked by HotK 1 in Singles & Dating

The e-Card was wishing her happy birthday

2006-10-09 09:28:22 · 1 answers · asked by shadrack 1 in Friends

I go out of state a lot and we sort of have a long distance relationship. She cheated on me once for another guy. I really like her. I buy her gold and silver bracelets ever week. We've been going out for a year and a half. I really don't want to end it, but I think she may be dating my friend. I even took her out for a $170 dinner last night and bought her a $3,999 bracelet and $997 ring for our aniversary. Is there something else I can try, or do you think I should end it?

2006-10-09 09:27:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:27:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like it, my girlfriends like it, even all the boys we know think its great.

2006-10-09 09:27:22 · 9 answers · asked by stephiluvvv 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by Jon 2 in Singles & Dating

It's been a tough day and Pub buddy is ready to play!!....Who's ready for a cold draft beer baby!!!! Happy Hours on me!

2006-10-09 09:26:28 · 6 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2 in Singles & Dating

whas a NICE way of getting him off the game- so he doest get the wrong idea-- i just want to sit down to dinner as a family at least 1 time a week? plz help serious answers only plz

2006-10-09 09:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by Deidre~&~Joshua 2 in Family

2006-10-09 09:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want her to approve of my boyfriend which I am going to marry, but I'm afraid if she finds out that he has brothers who are bad people who've been in trouble with the law that she will judge him and think that he is the same.

2006-10-09 09:25:57 · 4 answers · asked by Flower 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 29 and have a modern outlook on life, very positive etc. I moved away from home at 16 but not too far. Basically I look around and see everyone younger than me, my brother, sister etc. with such old fashioned tastes etc. I have a flat, very minimilist, and here they are decorating their house with daido rails, coving and awful, awful wallpaper. They buy these 'room dividers' or wall units in mahogany and put ornaments in them of birds and wolves for goddsake. When questioned they just don't why they do it! I mean yes our parents were like that, but surely people can think for themselves! And then they all seem to follow this zombie like state: must meet someone, must have baby, must buy fibre optic plastic decoration from argos. And the other thing is, fellow 'answerers' is they say they'd love to decorate like me but they cant afford it! Yes you can, a tin of paint, throw your c***py furniture out and do something with your life! Rant over. I despair.

2006-10-09 09:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by chrismyarse 2 in Family

2006-10-09 09:24:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you see a child kiss their adult family members on the mouth? I am over 30 and I get uncomfortable when my older family members try to kiss me on the mouth (m/f) and when they do it to my other relatives as well. I may just be desensitized from the warped way society has been revealed lately, so I am just asking.

2006-10-09 09:23:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-09 09:22:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time I go out with girlfriends to have a cocktail men hit on me and I have a wedding ring that you can't miss.Do men even care anymore? It also seems like the young guys are always the ones. I am 36 and the guys that usually hit on me are between 21 and 29.What is up with this?

2006-10-09 09:22:42 · 16 answers · asked by trixinator 2 in Singles & Dating

marriages have cheated or will cheat

2006-10-09 09:22:39 · 18 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Also, do you find a guy in biker shorts sexy?

2006-10-09 09:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:21:29 · 2 answers · asked by Serendipity 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend likes this girl and while helping her fix her computer, she saw a porn file in one of those usb flash drives. He explained to me that it wasnt his (I dont know if its true or not) and claims it was his friends. He said the same thing to his friend and told her it wasnt his but I assume she wouldnt believe so.Now he thinks he has no chance on earth with her. Now I'm curious what girls would think given this situation

2006-10-09 09:21:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like this girl. she told me she didnt like me. but she is alwayz tryin 2 get my attention by giving me lil taps on my shoulder. i asked her if she wanted 2 chill but she said she was punished. in my opinion i think she likes me but is 2 shy to say it and is waiting 4 me 2 make a move. the times that tries to get my attention she is blushing but with a smerk on her face. 3 years i had her in my confirmation classes at church. i asked this girl that i graduated with to tell her i liked her. she said she did. but then freshmen year of high school she started to go out with one of my friends. now im a junior and i really really want to go out with her. if i dont im going to regret it the rest of my life. sometimes in class she looks at me and starts 2 smile. one time she turned around to get something out of her bookbag and i looked at her and waved she smiled and then turned rite back around. what i think is that she likes me but wants to make the first move. should i kiss her

HELP

2006-10-09 09:20:44 · 6 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a female friend that over the last year I have loaned 20 thousand dollars to. I have asked for only one thing in exchange and that is for her to take a vacation with me for my birthday. She won't commit to the date because she said she would cook for a group that she belongs to but they haven't set a date for that event yet. Now am I wrong in thinking that I was used and tell her that if she needs more money than she needs to get it from the group that takes priority over me.

2006-10-09 09:20:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if your gf told u she is a very sexual person likes being sexy etc and has been a rabbitt in the past with previous bf's but hasnt done it with me yet cos we r long distance sghould i be worried answers from the ladies perspective please

2006-10-09 09:20:25 · 12 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

my 7 year old daughter kissed a boy at school i wasnt sure if that was appropriate so i nnedd to know if thats ok or not

2006-10-09 09:18:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay he stares tries to make conversation......my dad and my mom says hes obvious that he likes me but he never mentions it i dont know..... i want to approach him but dont know how.... oh yeah im not allowed to date yet.... so i want to keep it on the low

2006-10-09 09:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:18:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do...? My husband is 21 years old, we have a daughter that is 2 and He basically refuses to get a job. I don't know what is his problem. Every time he has a chance, he comes up with some kind of excuse. Then he tries to come up with an excuse to me about why he didn't go. I know he is young, so am I. I am 22. I am sick of everyone saying that it is because he is young. I have had a job since I was 16. (except for when I was off for Maternity for one of our kids.) I am so fed up that I am seriously wanting to leave him. I am here for real advice. Please Help... I am desperateThanks!!

2006-10-09 09:18:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay so we bin 'seeing each other' for over 4 months now. we have ups n downs n fights n stuff. he has a gf which i knew about before i got involved. we haven't discussed where we stand with each other. our schedules clash pretty bad so we've only ever had sex like 7 times in 4 months. a guy who hates him told me that he's the kinda guy who'll c like 3 girls in 1 day but i know he doesn't have the time 2 b doin that now. is this length of 'relationship' or even the type (with arguments n all) even normal for a player? I don't need to hear bout how wat i'm doin is wrong. got dat msg already. I'm in the situation. Not plannin on gettin out anytime soon unless the sex starts suckin (highly unlikely). Jus wanna know if this is normal or whether we seem 2 have moved up a level without either of us acknowledging it.

2006-10-09 09:17:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this promblem of being single!
i just can not stand it, i cant! and i beat myself up about no having anyone and like sometimes i do pretty stupid stuff......why?

2006-10-09 09:17:53 · 14 answers · asked by Dork 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by the chief 1 in Friends