i have this promblem of being single!
i just can not stand it, i cant! and i beat myself up about no having anyone and like sometimes i do pretty stupid stuff......why?
2006-10-09 09:17:53 · 14 answers · asked by Dork 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being single is not a problem and that doesnt make you 'alone'!
i still single.. and still not dating! =P
i'm cool with it! i can hang out with friends, use IM, talk on the phone!
its just the way u feel about it.. speak out.. try to find some friends.. its not necessary to enter a comittment to get rid of the blues.. i get the blues too.. but i can think of other things to cheer me up..!
every cloud has a silver lining! =P
2006-10-09 09:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Shariq M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but all I can say is do not date just any one so that you no longer feel like you are alone. I have been there. I felt like I needed a guy in my life to make my life interesting. He must have seen that written all over my face. He got what he wanted but I still felt empty, actually, I felt worse.
The best thing to do is hang out with your friends, go out there and flirt a little. Have fun with life. Enjoy being single.
Becareful of person you do hook-up with. Make sure that it is for the right reasons and not just because your alone.
2006-10-09 16:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by jerseylady_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it! Try to understand where is the problem/s and caused. Solve them sincerely.
It is human nature that, one don't treasure what one have now and seek something different.
When one get into something different (many but not all) looked back and say "alone better".
My marriage life is OK. But sometime, I'll look back and I have that feeling too.
Anyway, i hope you will find your true love soon and live happily till your very last second.
Good luck and best of health.
2006-10-09 16:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by alan chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like yourself very much, and that is the root of your problem. Bounce off of other people without having an agenda for a while. Read self-help book, particularly those having to do with self-esteem. I recommend "What to Say when You Talk to Yourself" by Shad Helmstetter. Go to my 360 and email me more details. We can work on this together. No agenda!
2006-10-09 16:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and keep in touch with your mates. if you haven't got many or you've lost touch make new ones. try the Internet. they have nice people on there and typing doesn't have to be nerve racking. as Whitney Huston said learning to love yourself is the greatest gift of all. once you do that you will find that every one else will do the same and you will no longer be alone. good luck x
2006-10-09 16:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem and every time i have settled.now I have two kids with me no wife.This time I am going to learn to be happy living without and make sure i like the person.not just settle because im alone.
2006-10-12 14:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have issues with being alone.. my friend has that.. she broke up with her boyfriend during their last class of the day and started going out with the guy she cheated on the guy she broke up with about 2 hrs after they broke up... and the last time she broke up with the guy she cheated on she started going out with another guy like an hour after...
she just has alone problems..
its normal for some girls..
it all depends on the upbringing.. if you were always with your parents when you were young then you might not want to be alone as much as those that were left alone some of the time to take care of themselves..
this probably isnt making sense but yea... lmao
2006-10-09 16:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kit-E-Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm ur weired
ive been single and never dated
why?
because there asking me out 4 reasons
so bad luck 2 them
im waiting 4 the right 1
I think u should to
dont take it like I dont care who goes out with me
as long im not alone????????
2006-10-09 16:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be desperate, wait for love. love comes in all directions even when your not looking. don't force love, for someday you'll have someone special, someone who will never let you go and will protect you with thier life. opportunity will come to you just be pacient and do not let pear presure or any thing that will let you do something unappropriate get in your head. just be yourself and enjoy your life. be smart be ready, love will some day cross your path.
2006-10-09 16:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by miss kiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I may be wrong, but you sound young. We all go through it sometime. If you would like someone to drop a note to, drop me one on my 360. Never put yourself down...there will always be someone else willing to do it for you. :o)
2006-10-09 16:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋