I go out of state a lot and we sort of have a long distance relationship. She cheated on me once for another guy. I really like her. I buy her gold and silver bracelets ever week. We've been going out for a year and a half. I really don't want to end it, but I think she may be dating my friend. I even took her out for a $170 dinner last night and bought her a $3,999 bracelet and $997 ring for our aniversary. Is there something else I can try, or do you think I should end it?
2006-10-09 09:27:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She also said that she almost went all the way with him. Her cuz says I wouldn't be the first.
2006-10-09 09:39:29 · update #1
Guys, She's only 14!! She told me that she was sorry and that it made her realize that she loved me more, Was she lying?
2006-10-09 09:41:03 · update #2
Too much Moolah man.
Try to cut those outwageous gifts out. If she starts to falter on your relationship then, she is probably just keepin you around to buy her stuff.
Can you ask you buddy? If you can't he isn't really your friend.
2006-10-09 09:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u could stop being a sucker, dude she is not ur girl she is everybodys friend leave her u think cuz u buy her stuff she will stay with u , SHE CHEATED 1 B4 , she needs physical attention u r not there 2 give it 2 her, u could tell u r a fool u r actually putting prices of stuff u bought 4 her , u expect pity from people thats why u did that , u will get pity alright pity that u r blind as a bat. stay with her y not everybody else is there make it a group thing.
2006-10-09 09:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways of finding out if some one is cheating..It takes playing detective. If you do find out..stop spending your money on some one who is obviously not worthy of your love kindness and generosity. Don't worry you will find the right girl someday. This may be a painful process but a necessary life-lesson.
2006-10-09 09:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by deedermarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are lots of easy ways to find out. Your best bet is to go and buy a GPS tracking unit to put in her car. Then you can access her whereabouts anytime via the Internet.
Second you can get some hidden cameras installed in your house and see what she is doing while you are out.
Hope that helps
2006-10-09 09:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you insist on buying her stuff, She does it cause she knows she will keep you either way. And if she has done it once she will likely do it again. Dont be the fool and put up with it. There are more women out there who will appreciate the things you do for them and love you
2006-10-09 09:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To Quote a famous person, P.T. Barnum, "A sucker is born every minute". Why play a game when you don't know the rules OR who's playing. STOP spending money on women. If you spend more then 40 dollars on a date you spent to much. What I say? "NEXT!"
2006-10-09 09:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Steve G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if she can't appriciate all THAT( That is a shitload of a compliment to a lady, makes he feel important and loved) kick her to the curb. I would never do that sort of thing to anyone. I am so sorry man, you deserve a good woman, not that kind of trashy goldigger woman.
2006-10-09 09:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by ~jenn~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million.quietly verify her panties in the laundry and sniff no longer elementary on the under section. 2.touch an unknown female's *** infront of her rapidly. if she smile and snigger, she loves you extra suitable than her canines. if she is bowled over, her accountable concious is beginning to show. 3.once you're making her 4 sandwiches for her breakfast and he or she declare she had eaten all of them once you verify in the evening, she is sharing her lunch with a male. (sandwiches dont lie!!) 4.if she have a peice of paper in her pencil case for the time of examination.
2016-12-08 11:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes USING u. if she rele liked u, then she would b w/ u all the time- not w/ ur friend. i bet if u stop buying her stuff she'll dump u. try not buying her stuff, and just talking to her. if she seems to drift farther away, she was using u. if not, then just tell her how u feel. she may not even realize that shes doing it. or she may just b a s*ut
2006-10-09 09:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo Mickey .. Throw some cash & jewelry my way and Ill show ya a good time !
2006-10-09 09:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Freak Nasty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋