I really like this guy at work he is everything a girl could want, he doesnt know I like him an I have been told that he doesnt date girls he works with should I forget about him? He is near perfect an I think he likes me to but we work together. What should I do? forget about him or go for it?
2006-10-09 10:22:53 · 14 answers · asked by dljtr37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dating someone at work can only cause problems.
2006-10-09 10:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is respect his wishes.
If he says he doesn't date girls from work, leave him alone.
If he was interested in you, he would have said, I am not SUPPOSED to date girls from work, but....
Let him come to you.
You don't have to forget about him, you can be charming and friendly, respectful, and sweet. He might notice or change his mind or say something encouraging or not. He might be gay or dating your cousin.
If you can't stand to leave him alone, then quit your job and then call him up. He will think you are stalking him, and he might be right.
Imagine if he QUIT HIS JOB for you...
He is NOT anywhere NEAR perfect because he is not interested in YOU!
I know it is hard to believe, but you can't capture everyone who piques your interest.
Move on, honey.
2006-10-09 10:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything fair in Love and War
2006-10-09 10:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be as normal around him as you can. Get to know him, talk laugh have fun. If he thinks that your a nice and funny person maybe he could think of you as a girlfriend. Don't get weird with him or act weird around him, then he might think your loopy. If its mean't to be it will be.
2006-10-09 10:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by blahblahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The early chook catches the trojan horse. i think of you ought to pursue it as long as he's attainable. as quickly as he starts off dating your superb buddy, he'd particularly be off limits to you. maximum of all, stop thinking approximately who else he might like on the 2d and ask him your self. Too many human beings might extremely complication themselves to dying than ask.
2016-10-19 02:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get to know him......Find out simple things about his life, then once he knows that your willing to listen he'll want to talk to you more often. You can find out simple things, by jus having lunch with him, i does'nt have to be a date.......
2006-10-09 10:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sami G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out and u should go for it never forget about him
2006-10-09 10:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by To Tall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should contiunte to talk to him, first become really good friends with him... at the end he will probley end up changing his mind and ask you out... you never know.. but if you really like him don't let him get away..
2006-10-09 10:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, whats the wordt thig he can do. Oh and when you do it make sure u do it right not all nervious.
2006-10-09 10:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-10-09 10:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋