Is honesty really the best policy?
2006-10-09 10:36:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
address it, compromise a bit but if it just isn't going to work then end it, it hurts but the longer it goes on the more it hurts.
2006-10-09 10:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by questioneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is not always the best policy. It's better to let him down easy. Say you don't think you want to see him any more, but don't cut down the poor guy too much. The worst thing you can do is just string him along. It will make the eventual break-up harder for both of you.
2006-10-09 10:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a hard one, get a new guy! Yes honesty IS the best policy.
2006-10-09 10:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have used honesty and it worked for me. I was married and he would blow on my ***** and not do anything but annoy me. I told him not to do that, and asked him where did he get that idea? Well he didn't do that anymore but, he still sucked in other areas as well. We weren't together for the sex anyway. We got divorced a year later. I found someone who did that and then some very well!
2006-10-09 10:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by stickinthemud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what needs do you have?
He's a person, not a car. Are you gonna trade up anytime a new model comes along? Does he need to have power steering, XM radio, and racing stripes? Or, is it enough that his engine and transmission are solid and he'll go the distance?
If you're gonna treat him like a car, then tell him that. Let him know that you view hiim as an object and not a person. Then, if he views you as an object too, he'll decide whether he wants to add on the options that you fancy or whether he's ready to trade you in for a new model instead.
2006-10-09 10:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by jack b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The whole purpose of dating is to find out if you're compatible. If you don't meet each other's needs, you end it and date someone else.
Are you talking sexually? Then I'd say don't sleep with people until you know you can have an honest, open discussion with them about sex!
2006-10-09 10:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your needs? are you not getting off? maybe you give bad head. anyway, my chick friend dumped a guy after they had sex because he had a small penis. honesty IS the policy. do what you need to do buddy.
2006-10-09 10:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honesty? depends. be nice unless he's not. but do move on if you need to.
2006-10-09 10:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest and upfront and tell Him of my needs, first.
If He could not take my needs into consideration, I would break up with Him.
2006-10-09 10:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by me_keekee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. That way this person can move on with their life and you can find someone that hopefully can fulfill all your needs.
2006-10-09 10:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋