Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

well.. i have a boyfriend... ans well.. he lives on one side of town and i live on the other.. and we never get to see each other..we barely talk.. and this other dude asked me out.. and well we've been talkin for the past for like 2 days.. and we have sooo much in common... help me wut should i do??

2006-10-08 13:48:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 13:48:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i have this friend and i've known for almost a year but we are the type of friends where it feels like we have known each other longer then that, so i was just wondering what to get her for her birthday ( like four months ago she said she liked sailor moon and wanted a sailor moon pencil box but she hasn't really mentioned anything about it since) ( we are both 21) do you think she would like this or is it too kidish and if so what should i get her

2006-10-08 13:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by chuy85 2 in Friends

2006-10-08 13:47:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-08 13:46:46 · 1 answers · asked by Salvatore 2 in Friends

Okay, well my bf's brother and girlfriend come over to visit occasionally. Well recently they've been bringing this girl with them, while im at work. I'v met her twice my self the first time was the first time my bf met her aswell. Well she had been to my house 4-5 times since. While i was at work. Then the other night she was here with them again... and it seemed as though my bf was acting even a lil different, like showing off.. trying to say funny stuff etc. and my bf's 30 shes 22 and im 24yrs. Im not a jelous person but something seems to be weird and so i talked to my bf about her being here, and if he would like it if it were him in my shoes, and he replied no etc. So one night his brother calls me and asks for my bf he said he had been calling his cell all day and no answer. I looked on my bf's phone no calls with his brothers number on it, my bf says he deleted them cause he didnt want me to think it was that girl calling him. ps.. she dresses like a skank. what do you think?

2006-10-08 13:46:31 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 13:46:31 · 4 answers · asked by fred s 1 in Singles & Dating

i like my ex still but her cuzin told me that she said that she is too good for me. and i don't know what to do. move on or what.

2006-10-08 13:46:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 13:45:31 · 36 answers · asked by Jill Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do boys like in a girl?

2006-10-08 13:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by irma 3 in Singles & Dating

"Please Go Away, People Might Think I Like You!" Thats what I want to see to my guy friend. I think he likes me but I really don't like him back. And hes always hanging out with me. One time, Thomas( my guy friend ) was talking to me but I didn't want to talk to him so I just nodded and stuff, and so the boy that I like passes by and looks at us. And i'm thinking that he thinks that I like my guy friend but I actually like the boy who passed us ( Jason ) Should I tell Thomas that I don't want to be his friend anymore?

2006-10-08 13:44:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If I say "Hey baby" to guy, do guys like that remark if they didnt tell me to call them by their first name?

2006-10-08 13:44:30 · 18 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Friends

I'm SO SICK of my sister!! Every night my older sister will senk her boy friend into the house and they're doing it in the room beside mine while I HAVE to watch THEIR baby. I sick of having to listen to them. She's 25 and shw won't move out. and that good for nothing.... boy that she's with won't fix the house that my parents bought for them. I AM SO SICK OF THIS!!!!!!!! Should I tell my mom what thye are doing? Is anybody else.... in the world going throught anything like this?? I NEED HELP! I can't do this anymore! Should I go see my school shrink, or will she come back and tell my mom? I'm on the edge! I feel like I'm about to cry right now. PLEASE... somebody with any advice on how I can put up with this any longer? I'm 16, and I've already been through an eating disorder (my mom doesn't know. my friends helped me with it.) and I'm haveing thoughts of sucide because of this. This is for real and I need help!!
should I talk to somebody about this.... Or will this feeling go own??

2006-10-08 13:44:03 · 18 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2 in Family

When I was a teen - a long, long time ago - we went steady. One guy, one girl for however long it lasted. College girls got "pinned" - same idea but you were older and it was a step before engagement. Is a "promise ring" similar to our going steady ring? Just curious.

2006-10-08 13:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by Book0602 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's like the people who are don't want to make mistakes are treated like lepers and people embarrass them by always asking them why they "never" married (as if their chances are over). Nobody asks people why they've been divorced 2-3 times!

2006-10-08 13:43:38 · 8 answers · asked by barbiesmokescrack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 13:42:10 · 15 answers · asked by FeEdMeJuNkFoOd 2 in Family

I have already decided this is what I want but I jsut dont know how to tell him. I have already found an apartment and all that stuff so should I just say, "I want a divorce, I'm moving out on this day" and hand him the papers or is that really cold? Please help me!!!

2006-10-08 13:41:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well hell....looks like I am screwed.......... I am 19 and I live such a lonely life!!! what waits for me when I am older...son of a *****...

I feel that I'm just so different and i'm sometimes quiet(Not usually). I never feel a connection with nobody except my family. Damn I hate myself sometimes.

I've always been told that I am an attractive guy...bullshit. I never get any attention maybe just a simple "eye-ball" look, wow! (TOO hard to tell if they are just looking at just cuz they can, OR if they find interest in me). I never gotten any girl come up to me and start a convo or never had anyone introduce themselves. Oh and when i do try to establish something special it always turns out bad...the "Not interested, lets be friends" excuse, sick and tired of that.

2006-10-08 13:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by FeverLust 3 in Singles & Dating

He's cheated in the past. Now were supposed to be moving on and everything seemed perfect, we even have a place lined up to move into so this is serious..
I snooped, i know i shouldnt have but i did. I looked in both his o2 text accounts at sent messages. In one of them, they were all texts to me. In the other, all the sent texts were deleted!
He also uses mine and i checked that - all deleted! And i definitely didnt do it myself.
From the day he txt me from his o2 account this month, it was 3 days ago, i havent recived 30 texts which is what the total amount he could send would be. All the texts had been used.
Also, he is staying at his best friends house (i know he is there as his friends girlfriend is also my best friend) and all his friends live around there so he wouldnt have needed to txt them.

What do you think? Honest answers please... im so upset right now..

2006-10-08 13:40:35 · 9 answers · asked by Lula Mae 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

you'll see....Im a 23 year old girl Im doing master degree in the collegue (history of mexican art) and work for a big newspaper ....and Im very involved in several research projects in collegue .....and when I find a guy they always flirt with me .... (Im very good looking true nice body, green eyes, dark hair, etc...) but as soon as they found that Im very academic type they run away.......should I pretend to be dumb???

2006-10-08 13:40:24 · 25 answers · asked by lil princess 2 in Singles & Dating

i've liked my best friend for a while but he doesn't feel the same.

now he's sorta suspecting that everything i do for him as a friend means that i still like him as i've been over flirtly last time even though he's told me.

I know he doesn't wanna hurt my feelings, and i can't help the way i feel, but maybe it's time to put it out there and let him know that i'm sorry i've always crossed the border and now that i wanna be friends only? i'm kinda fed up with my hints and his indirect response, and putting everythign out there might clear up the mist, who thinks this is gonna ruin my friendship?

we always talk about everything, but this?

2006-10-08 13:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Singles & Dating

What would be some good questions to ask your girlfriend about how the love is?can yall help me on this one.

2006-10-08 13:39:26 · 4 answers · asked by Tony E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would u do if ur best male friend has started avoiding u bcz he noticed tht u started to like him & to feel tht u can be more then friends...? he said tht he is doing tht bcz he doesnt want to hurt u...what would u do, would u try to contact him & say tht u forgot about tht more than friends thing? and how?

2006-10-08 13:39:25 · 9 answers · asked by Drowned in English! 3 in Singles & Dating

but i kind of still like him but its the fact i need a new one to move on and yet im to afraind to go up to this guy i like and talk to him

2006-10-08 13:39:17 · 4 answers · asked by Flame B 1 in Singles & Dating

there this lady which is my dad friend she tell me what do and how to do it i mean bic** is not my mother

2006-10-08 13:39:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay lately my bf has been acting wierd like, he'll come home late and without an explination, is it time to break up, if so im really down because last week he told me he loved me, but is that just to make me vonerable,HELP,i love him back

2006-10-08 13:38:56 · 23 answers · asked by butlerbabygirl1010 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 13:38:47 · 15 answers · asked by cruisingalong 4 in Family

2006-10-08 13:37:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have all kinds of people hitting on me and when I tell them I only date black men they say wtf is your problem *****? I'm like hey if you have to ask why I only date black men then you are stupid.

2006-10-08 13:36:50 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom married my step dad when I was 5. I am now 30. Over the years since they married me and him have but heads several times. I consider him my dad, I have respect for him as my dad not step dad. My mom passed 4 yrs ago and it left a big hole in everyone. Now he fights with me about EVERYTHING. I live in a totally diferent state and still cant seem to make him happy. He is an alcoholic has a full time job but he is just really angry.

What can I do to open his eyes that stuff he did when I was a child and growing up has affected me as an adult (NO there was no sexual abuse just emotional and mental). How do I get him to realize that he hurt my mind and soul deeply?

2006-10-08 13:36:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family