He's cheated in the past. Now were supposed to be moving on and everything seemed perfect, we even have a place lined up to move into so this is serious..
I snooped, i know i shouldnt have but i did. I looked in both his o2 text accounts at sent messages. In one of them, they were all texts to me. In the other, all the sent texts were deleted!
He also uses mine and i checked that - all deleted! And i definitely didnt do it myself.
From the day he txt me from his o2 account this month, it was 3 days ago, i havent recived 30 texts which is what the total amount he could send would be. All the texts had been used.
Also, he is staying at his best friends house (i know he is there as his friends girlfriend is also my best friend) and all his friends live around there so he wouldnt have needed to txt them.
What do you think? Honest answers please... im so upset right now..
2006-10-08 13:40:35 · 9 answers · asked by Lula Mae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes he absolutely is hiding somthn and if i were to read the situation from ur info she is it. Can u contact the comp and request a statement it can tell u u what number was texted even if he erased those ones...
2006-10-08 13:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be possible that he is cheating but never conclude until you find evidence. First thing you can do is to maybe approach and ask genuinely about the deleted texts. Tell him about your fears and that the speculations are based on that he cheated you in the past. Open up to him. As he talks take note of all he is saying in order to denote the truth from his words. You can tell if he is lying. If he is cheating leave him because he is no good to you.
2006-10-08 20:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by mmadamor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's more than likely up to no good and in my book I've seen it time and time again, once a cheater or theif always a cheater, I wish you luck and ask him who he is txing, tell him that is going to make the difference in your future realationship, if you can't trust him, I would move on girl, their are too many nice people out their. I was in a simulair situation with my ex and she's been gone for 5 years, I was hurt at first but later I realized I'm alot better off with out her. It takes a while If you have alot of feelings for the person but all wounds will heal. good luck and keep your head up.
2006-10-08 20:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could be, but you need to look for more signs before getting upset. How about asking his friends that live by him if they think he is cheating.
2006-10-08 20:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You're making yourself crazy over his life and you are wasting yours. If he is not cheating now, he will sooner or later. DUMP THE LOSER!
2006-10-08 20:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by zeppsully 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl. That's how you start thinking when you're dating a cheating fool
2006-10-08 20:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel in your heart that something's up/wrong - go with it - it's not usually wrong. dont' ignore these signs you'll see in the end you were probably right. move on and feel better about YOU!
2006-10-08 20:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I'm so sorry but I'm not sure hes in love anymore, that's what happens with guys they love you until it gets"dull" then its off to the next girl just like that . I'm so sorry i feel your pain
2006-10-08 20:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by butlerbabygirl1010 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u put your had in the toilet your bound to pull some Sh*t out
2006-10-08 20:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋