I have all kinds of people hitting on me and when I tell them I only date black men they say wtf is your problem *****? I'm like hey if you have to ask why I only date black men then you are stupid.
2006-10-08 13:36:50 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are hot so they can't believe that the guy that can date you is limited.
2006-10-09 13:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by East Bay Punk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a black woman who only dates black men, I know that we all have a right to date who we choose. But the bottom line is that as a white woman you have an ALTERIATIVE MOTIE behind dating a black men; i.e dark skin, big d-ick, thuggish or what ever the reason. Black men know that sistahs (black women) date black men because we were raised by black men and will always be down for them because we face the same struggles. You date them because it's the cute thing to do now and it's like having a new Louie V bag on your arm.
2006-10-12 10:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people did not ask,what would be the point of dating a black person? Sounds like deep down you enjoy the attention you
get ...after all that is said and done, I've known black men that think like you do ,they say it makes them feel 10 feet tall to be seen with a white girl.I think you should do as you wish,if this is what makes you feel like a whole person and that you are not using people to inflate your ego or maybe I am wrong.I've heard "try black and you will never go back" Good Luck.......
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2006-10-08 13:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by squirlyShirley1 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because they are stupid! We live in America and we have the right to date anyone we want. I thik if you like black men, then you date black men. Who cares about race ya know?
Im so for ur side! U go gurl!
2006-10-08 15:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by armygirl89 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that sounds like a personal thing. And black guys are your choice. But why tell everyone that asks you?? cant you just decline w/o announcing the fact you only date black men?? maybe you want the negative attention you are getting.. If thats the case I wouldnt even bring it up..
2006-10-08 13:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just tell them you are not interested. leave it simple. if you wanna date out your race who are other people to judge you. you can't pick and choose who you are attracted to. why do some men only like women with a certain hair color? does that make them racist over all the other hair colors. no. the world is made up of a rainbow of different people. why do we always have to stick with the same old colors???? good luck.
2006-10-08 14:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So you would exclude a respectible, responsible, man of character based souly on race?
And you don't see this as an issue?
Wow... thank God I'm white! There is just so much wrong with that mindset that I wouldn't even know where to begin to sort it out.
Your last sentance suggests that everyone should know the answer to the question... If you are refering to the first sterotype that comes to mind that I think that me and my 10 inches are going to think you might not be much more that a slut.
2006-10-08 13:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Whatever floats your boat, sweetie. But isn't it rather bigoted to only date black guys? There could be some other guy out there who would be perfect for you who isn't black. You would be missing out on that if you make silly rules. And BTW, that is an old wive's tale, if the reason you infer is what I think it is. They are just like every other guy.
2006-10-08 13:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think some people get offended because society thinks that if you are a certain race then yo should stick with your race but everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I think this is a problem that will be around for a long time.
2006-10-08 13:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by strwberryshortcake_65 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I really don't think this is a question. It's more like a statement and you are entitled to your lifestyle choice. I just don't understand why you need to announce it or even get others opinion because end the end will it change things for you....no....you will still date who you want.
2006-10-08 13:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by ?? 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋