Well hell....looks like I am screwed.......... I am 19 and I live such a lonely life!!! what waits for me when I am older...son of a *****...
I feel that I'm just so different and i'm sometimes quiet(Not usually). I never feel a connection with nobody except my family. Damn I hate myself sometimes.
I've always been told that I am an attractive guy...bullshit. I never get any attention maybe just a simple "eye-ball" look, wow! (TOO hard to tell if they are just looking at just cuz they can, OR if they find interest in me). I never gotten any girl come up to me and start a convo or never had anyone introduce themselves. Oh and when i do try to establish something special it always turns out bad...the "Not interested, lets be friends" excuse, sick and tired of that.
2006-10-08 13:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by FeverLust 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Currently I am in college trying to pursue a career in nursing. I live in the beach by myself, and I hate seeing those full moons all myself..
Is it my shitty minimum wage job? if so what the hell can I do about it other than wait a few years to become a nurse.
Sometimes I just think women don't like guys who look young despite their age! **** if I know, i give up.
2006-10-08 13:43:05 · update #1
Maybe I am just depressed????
Maybe I meet women older than me? which is beyond my control....kinda makes me miss H.S
2006-10-08 13:58:37 · update #2
Whats up with this!! You are only 19 and have a great life ahead of you!! get involved at the local gym or whatever and don't be so shy as you need to get out more and have fun!!!!!!!! Enjoy life!!
2006-10-08 13:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you, well right until the right kinda guy stepped in when I was 19. I still am a dork, only thing is, he sees more than the dork. He sees someone he coulld have a future with. Which is the same is you. Perhaps the right kinda people whom would understand and like your personality are rare, but that doesnt mean that they do not exist.
Those girls who just wanna be firends only perhaps just don't get you. Freat not, youre only 19, enjoy doing the things you do. Don't compromise yourself just because you want to fit it. Be yourself and you will find a select group of people attracted to you...
All teh best
2006-10-08 13:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your not the only person in the world that's going through this. You need to stop doing the norm and put yourself out there...all the "cool" kids are having a good time by sitting home not taking chances!
Stop being shy, and go mingle! Make yourself known....no one will notice you if you dont make an effort... you make life seem so bad but your not trying hard enough...(got this conclusion from your paragraph).
Work on your esteem first then go out there and make some friends....
2006-10-08 13:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if you want to pick up girls YOU are going to have to break the ice(start the conversation). Women don't know that this is just as hard for men as it is for them, and some will scoff.
Talk about them, talk about stuff that they are into. Talking about yourself too much turns girls off. keep a smile on your face, it does wonders to your attractiveness. look them in the eyes. the longer and more comfortable the stare the better.
Good luck man
2006-10-08 13:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't focus so much on getting a girlfriend. Go out, have a good time and if a girl comes up to talk to you, talk to them. If you see a girl you like, go talk to her. If she isn't interest. too bad, her loss. You are 19 years old, you'll find someone, I promise.
2006-10-08 13:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont give up. you know that you are not the only one who feels that way. like you said, you are young. all you have to do is wait, and while you do that try being a bit more confident. remember we women love confidence in a man, it shows us that you can do whatever you want. just dont lose hope you'll find the right one, just you wait.
2006-10-08 13:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey the right one will come along when you least expect it. Just be patient. But don't settle for anything less than you deserve, that never works out very well. Good Luck Hun!!!!
2006-10-08 13:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Baby_love4482 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up dude seriously i like this guy that is almost 19 and he thinks the same about himself i came up to him and i want him so bad but he thinks he is committed to some other chick. but anyways you sound like a nice guy just keep looking best of look
2006-10-08 13:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by class of 2010!!! rock on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in their 19 can be a awkward age..take it 1 day at a time and why dont you start going and making the first move?? sometimes that helps...
2006-10-08 13:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude id say you just need to take some time and read about this kind of stuff or look it up on the Internet like go to google.com and type in what you need or just lower your standards
2006-10-08 13:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by scotty do 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋