i've liked my best friend for a while but he doesn't feel the same.
now he's sorta suspecting that everything i do for him as a friend means that i still like him as i've been over flirtly last time even though he's told me.
I know he doesn't wanna hurt my feelings, and i can't help the way i feel, but maybe it's time to put it out there and let him know that i'm sorry i've always crossed the border and now that i wanna be friends only? i'm kinda fed up with my hints and his indirect response, and putting everythign out there might clear up the mist, who thinks this is gonna ruin my friendship?
we always talk about everything, but this?
2006-10-08 13:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kind of scary huh?
I know how you feel.....It's like the one thing you've 'never' talked about for fear of hurting one or the others feelings. But it sounds like since you are such good friends, that maybe it's about time you did. I would hate for something to happen that causes your friendship to end before you do get a chance to talk. So, yes, now's the time. Just make sure you're in the right mood...frame of mind and so forth....and I"m sure everything will work out fine.
Good friends are hard to find, as I'm sure you know...so it'd be crazy to lose him over a misunderstanding....
Good luck ! ! ! ! !
2006-10-08 13:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll be hard to do it but girl you have to... How much longer as the two of oyu going to pretend that yur feelings don't exist? You might regret not telling him for the rest of your life.. I say you tak ethe risk and go with your instincts. Still maintain your friendship and maybe one day he'll grow to love you because he'll see what a wonderful person you truly are. From now on he'll be looking at you in a different light but don't do anyhting out of the ordinary.. just behave like you two were in the beginning.. don't push, it'll come slowly but naturally..
Good luck gurl!
2006-10-08 20:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk about it... You said that you have talked about everything in the past, this needs to be one of them. But it may make it worse.... pn the other hand it seems that you do not have anything to lose because your friendship is not the way you want it to be now.
2006-10-08 20:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talking about this will only make your friendship stronger. It is clearing everything up between the two of you which only makes it easier to talk about anything else i think you should go for it!
2006-10-08 20:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by strwberryshortcake_65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk, if he's really a friend it will work out. Friendship is a precious thing, well worth working to maintain.
2006-10-08 20:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he really cares for you then he will understand that he missed his chance and that your feelings have changed.I think you need to talk to him about it and let him know.It might ruin your friendship but if he cares at all then it won't
2006-10-08 20:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by sexyredneck122205 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk is cheap. Action speaks louder than words.
2006-10-08 20:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's overwhelmed and uncomfortable. Leave him alone for awhile and for you to get over it!!!
2006-10-08 20:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , girlfriend talk about it ...you'll feel better ...good luck
2006-10-08 20:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh
2006-10-08 20:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋