there this lady which is my dad friend she tell me what do and how to do it i mean bic** is not my mother
2006-10-08 13:39:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe she is trying to help but dosent know how to really help you . take in what you can use and the rest let it go in one ear and out the other... is she trying to be your friend? maybe she is trying to hard... have you gave her a chance? parents/adults can sometimes be over bearing but not menaing any harm !!!!
2006-10-08 14:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up with her... tell her that she has no jurisdiction over what you do or how you do it. Plain and simple- its not up to her to decide what, when or how you do something. And, if your dad is the understanding type or even if he isnt, talk to him to - tell him that you DO NOT appreciate this woman who is not your mother or someone in a parental role telling you what to do- you are his child and you come first!!! He should respect your thoughts and take them into consideration. It never hurts to be honest about how you feel- it has to do with YOU!!!
2006-10-08 20:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to be polite to her. Ignore her. Throwing tantrums is for 2 year olds. You could do what I figure out w/ a guy at work who is an abrasive person. I decided to ask him a question every time he sees me, that way he will avoid me.
2006-10-08 20:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to do it is just pretend you don't hate her and do what she says. If that don't work ignore her that way you don't have to pay attention to her. If that don't work just explode and throw a fit with her that one always helps
2006-10-08 20:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Crista D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋