Okay, well my bf's brother and girlfriend come over to visit occasionally. Well recently they've been bringing this girl with them, while im at work. I'v met her twice my self the first time was the first time my bf met her aswell. Well she had been to my house 4-5 times since. While i was at work. Then the other night she was here with them again... and it seemed as though my bf was acting even a lil different, like showing off.. trying to say funny stuff etc. and my bf's 30 shes 22 and im 24yrs. Im not a jelous person but something seems to be weird and so i talked to my bf about her being here, and if he would like it if it were him in my shoes, and he replied no etc. So one night his brother calls me and asks for my bf he said he had been calling his cell all day and no answer. I looked on my bf's phone no calls with his brothers number on it, my bf says he deleted them cause he didnt want me to think it was that girl calling him. ps.. she dresses like a skank. what do you think?
2006-10-08 13:46:31 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no women should be coming to your house when your not home its that simple tell him that this is not acceptable i dont care if there with another couple or not no way would i allow that crap in my house and to be honest it sounds like they might have a little something going already
2006-10-08 13:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by lisaisfunn1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend must be pulling one. In your position I would tell my brother not to bring any woman over to my house if I wasn't there. He shouldn't have done that anyway! And when you know for sure your mans cheating don't let it rule you. Break it off because you will be the one hurting. He will try to come back because they always do after they have had their quick play and if you are a wise woman you won't let him. It will give him the confidence to do it you again and again and again. Do you want to live like that?
2006-10-08 20:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u gotta watch out with that girl while Ur at work and the the brother too specially when they come over to ur house theirs no reason for them to bring that girl to Ur house or is their. some guys dont care if they dresse like a skank
2006-10-08 20:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks not good. You do the best but is for your good . Maybe you should explain your bf what he is putting in jeopardy to ruin, and take care of family because what he has right now for sure.
2006-10-08 20:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to have a serious talk,real conversation,communication is so important in any relationship. If you have a good.honest talk together you may be able to tell by your gut feeling if he says is true or not but you really need to get down to the nitty gritty here.
2006-10-08 20:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't allow her in my home again. Sounds to me like the brother doesn't like you much and is trying to split you two up. Make sure your husband knows your feelings about this skank being in your home and that she is NOT welcome and especially not while your not home.
2006-10-08 21:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bf that you feel like shes making you feel weird and say something cute like 'i don't want to loose you'. get the whole pity thing going, and then have him tell his bro not to bring her around any more.
2006-10-09 20:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust that girl she is bad news **** if i knew you i would kick her out for you and tell her to stay the hell away from your man because a guy and a girl cannot be friends with out having a thing for one a other .
2006-10-08 20:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by carmen b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its possible you could be over reacting...rather than taking the immediate defensive....y not be accepting of the new girl that hangs out and feel her out....if your bf is interested you will find out....everyone slips up....
2006-10-08 20:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your man wants her he is acting to strange. or maybe he wants both of you and dont no hao to break it to you.
2006-10-08 20:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Christine R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋