okay lately my bf has been acting wierd like, he'll come home late and without an explination, is it time to break up, if so im really down because last week he told me he loved me, but is that just to make me vonerable,HELP,i love him back
2006-10-08 13:38:56 · 23 answers · asked by butlerbabygirl1010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There comes a time in EVERY person's relationship where will are given the chance to question the faithfullness of our partner, The feeling can be strong and Our mind will give us that sort of feeling that says NO you cannot let this keep happening but remember that if you can sit down and talk with them in the beginning and get to know them, then you can sit down again and get to know him better.....You will understand just take him somewhere comfy sit him down and say we need to talk....You will know where to go from there.
2006-10-08 13:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to a good $ strong relationship is Trust, once u'v lost it the relationship is lock for eternity, he might be cheating bt that depends on how long u can endure and if u love him, it doesn't matter if he's cheating or nt...u can change him, give him all the love and affection he needs, pamper him and he will come lookin 4 u like a dog, trust him
2006-10-08 13:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Toju A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you love him. But that's no excuse to let him pull the wool over your eyes. A good relationship is built on trust. You either trust him or you don't. As for him, he's either trustworthy enough to be able to give you an honest answer as to where he's been, & why he's out so late. or he isn't.
2006-10-08 13:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just comeo on out and ask him. Only you can make the choices to move on or stay with him. There is so much more to love than just saying the words. Loving someone is showing it, respecting them, caring for them and what they feel, think. Don't allow three words spoken in possible "controlling moments" to be the reason you stay if you think he's cheating on you.......ask him face to face and if yours still not happy, check things out and if he is, then move on for your own happiness.
2006-10-08 13:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming home late is not enough to suggest that he is cheating. It is, however, a really big red flag. Keep an eye open for more signs and then talk to him and tell him how you feel.
2006-10-08 13:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may being going through some changes.... have you tried talking to him?? i don't know but when our mates act strange the first thing that comes to our mind is infidelity....you need to get out what ever is bothering you....because it's not fair to him for you to have all these doubts about him...but yet you won't discuss it with him....jumping to conclusions will not solve anything at all...i understand you love him....and you want your relationship to work....but how do you expect it to work if you don't have a voice sweetheart....talk to him...ppl go through ups and downs in their relationship all the time...thats what makes us stronger thats what makes us understand each other a bit more....communication is the key to a successful relationship....but now if he's cheating....you are going to have to be the one to make that decision....rather to stay or to go....good luck!!!
2006-10-08 13:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird = guilty ,your gut instinct is probably correct.Love is a action ,much more than jut words and if he cant explain his time or his weird behavior that is not love , but deceit ,and if he says he loves you without action to prove it ,that is just manipulation.Love is a crazy thing , i hope im wrong for the sake of your heart . I hope this helps you !
2006-10-08 13:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...talk to him....conversation is really inportant in a realtionship..and ask him why is he acting a bit weird nowadays...?or maybe your BF needs attention....when was the last time you guy had a dinner?with intimate moments?maybe he is really for that moment to be repeated.....I hope you can clear this thing out...take care...
2006-10-08 13:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is coming home late and has no explanation then hes up to something you should be demanding and explanation you deserve that right if he gives you some crap story that you know just isnt right then i would say yes hes cheating my mom always told me that if you have the feeling that something just isnt right then it probaly isnt
2006-10-08 13:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by lisaisfunn1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating. It's time. Get a dictionary. Look up vulnerable. Memorize it. Remember it. Tell yourself not to be it.
2006-10-08 13:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋