Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

ok well my ex that i was with on and off for like a year and a half....lets call him D.we broke up officialy like 6 months ago and he got a new girlfriend emily.they broke up and he told me how much he needed me and missed me.i love him and can never see myself without him.so we are having sex and staying friends and he still talks to emily.one minute there together the next they are not and he keeps goin on about me bieng his ride or die.i know he loves me but either we are together or we should go our seperate ways i think.but he keeps telling me i will have my chance to shine...we are going to end up together...HELP!!!

2006-10-08 13:22:50 · 3 answers · asked by fittedhead2toe247 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to let go of someone you like so much who is your best friend (who doesn't feel the same way about you?)

I think everything that i still do for him (on a friend level) still makes him think that i still have feelings for him (which i still do) and i think its ruining what's left of our friendship.

he's moving to my uni campus next year so things are gonna get harder cuz i'm gonna see him more often.

is there anyway to break off my strong feelings for him without breaking the friendship? do we need to talk about it instead of giving hints and indirect talks?

2006-10-08 13:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Singles & Dating

Not remotely interested in fake tanned male strippers or dressing up in tacky costumers with learner plates attatched to a vail. Something fun but not cheesy, any ideas?

2006-10-08 13:21:36 · 25 answers · asked by Gypsie 5 in Weddings

some men not all men when they buy they lover a gift or dinner they think they own them. I have hard some men say I took you out to dinner and you disrespect me like that I spend my hard earn money on you. $6.00. back in the days men would buy women chicken or fish dinners and they feel like they own them because they spend 7.00 dollar's on them.

2006-10-08 13:21:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Every night my older sister will senk her boy friend into the house and they're doing it in the room beside mine while I HAVE to watch THEIR baby. I sick of having to listen to them. She's 25 and shw won't move out. and that good for nothing.... boy that she's with won't fix the house that my parents bought for them. I AM SO SICK OF THIS!!!!!!!! Should I tell my mom what thye are doing? Is anybody else.... in the world going throught anything like this?? I NEED HELP! I can't do this anymore! Should I go see my school shrink, or will she come back and tell my mom? I'm on the edge! I feel like I'm about to cry right now. PLEASE... somebody with any advice on how I can put up with this any longer? I'm 16, and I've already been through an eating disorder (my mom doesn't know. my friends helped me with it.) and I'm haveing thoughts of sucide because of this. This is for real and I need help!!

2006-10-08 13:20:55 · 22 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2 in Family

I am deployed with the Army to the middle east right now. I have been gone almost a year and a half. I met this amazing woman 6 months before I left. I asked her to marry me a few days before I went over seas.
I am totally sure that she is the one.We have discused getting married in March (my idea) yet she has suggested that we get married right away. I am tempted to do it! I love her more than anything in this world, yet I still want to wait two or three months after I get back from Overseas.
Do I give in to temptation and get hitched in a court house a few days after I get back? Or stick to my guns and hold out till march to have a small ceremony in March with friends and familly?
Its that whole, why wait/ dont rush argument

thanks everybody

2006-10-08 13:20:18 · 18 answers · asked by aerisw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I met this guy in the ER the other day. He brought in his mother and he was soooo handsome. We sat tand talked for hours and we really clicked. The only thing that made my tummy clinch was when when he said he has two little girls who are 2 and 11 months old. He said the mother of his children left them when the 2nd one was born and hasn't been heard of in over 9 months. He gave me his number but I am affraid this is too much for me because I have a 4 month old daughter myself and I do not think that I will be able to handle 3 children in diapers!!! I need to know if it is at all a good idea to get to know this guy a little better and give him a chance. I think he is such a really good guy and he comes off as a guy who loves children.....NEED HELP!!!

2006-10-08 13:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by *Kyden* 1 in Singles & Dating

But if it's a guy, they're " dating"?
Why can't girls have their fun too?

2006-10-08 13:19:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend hasn't called me in 5 days. ok we are out of school for fall break and he hasent called me! im shocked cause he calls me everyday. im worried. ill see him tomorrow at our high school. what should i say to him what should i do! im so confused!!!

2006-10-08 13:18:44 · 14 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 13:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

for example, a freshman. will u go around someone young like a freshmen.

2006-10-08 13:18:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.k....so i'm 5"5 and I weight 130 lbs. Do you think this is fat/chubby?...would you/have you dated a girl like this?
Please no sarcastic a**hole responses. Just honest answers. (I can take brutal honesty.)

2006-10-08 13:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by Jane D 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well this boy at skool likes me but like i never had a boy friend before so i don't know what i should i say to him i need help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-08 13:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we went out about a year ago and we had a little bit of a falling out after we broke up and she got another boyfriend...lately we have been talking and she told me that she likes me and i still like her but i don't know what to do....any advice is helpful

2006-10-08 13:15:53 · 15 answers · asked by big_owie_07 1 in Singles & Dating

There are friends from high school who i haven't seen in a long time. They are the closest friends i have from high school. They are a nice group of people. Once at my college i went to a halloween dance. My mom was saying did you talk to anybody new? i told her that i knew mostly everyone who was at the dance. then she told me try to be friends with someone who doesn't have a best friend who doesn't talk to a lot of people. she said to be friends with just one girl. one isn't enough.one of my best friends was changing. sometimes it's good to be friends with someone who has a best friend. then u could all be friends. my mom has 3 best friends she knew them since elementary school. to me it kinda sounds like she's controlling who i should be friends with. i does it sounds like it?

2006-10-08 13:15:51 · 4 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Family

2006-10-08 13:15:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been sleeping with this guy for a long time now and sometimes it takes a long time before his penis gets hard. does that mean he is not turned on by me.

2006-10-08 13:15:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i meet a guy and he said something about having drink.we didn't meet becauce his mom is n town I called no anwers but then he call right back we talk 4 a few min and then told me if i want i can give him a call later he will be around ?? so now i'm so unsure if he wants me to call or blowing me off. HELP

2006-10-08 13:15:02 · 24 answers · asked by cakes811 1 in Singles & Dating

I adore the things kids say...truth frank and cute
stays in ur memory forever.
still remember when my youngest sister who refused to cut her bday cake when she was turning 3 because i wasnt there at the function !!

2006-10-08 13:14:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anne H 3 in Family

2006-10-08 13:13:25 · 12 answers · asked by Baby Mercedes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this guy for four and years and we were to be married. After living together for four years, I just recently found out he has been seeing several women at least 85% of our relationship. I am so hurt because I thought he was the one and I could trust him. I've bent over backwards forgiving all the ups and downs of our relationship. I am a happy homemaker and fell in the role of taking care of his kids when they visited, I have none, and helping his mom when she needed to go to the doctor. I've always said and thought that he was selfish; he proved my point. Don't get me wrong, I left him, but miss having someone in my life because I became accustomed to having a family, as we shared. My mom and cousin is very excithed that I left him. I have a very good fulltime job, my own place (apt.), college, and a part-time job, but some how, I still feel empty and sick to my stomach at times. How do I fulfill my life again, as a single woman? Can someone help?

2006-10-08 13:13:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what person in your life that is so mean they are ungly?

2006-10-08 13:11:50 · 11 answers · asked by mishoney 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 13:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i can be a guys best friend but ill never end up his girlfriend?

do they think im high maintenence because i always wear differernt outfits and my hair is done differently everyday? i dont think im that high maintenence...everyone tells me im pretty but i just never have a boyfriend.

((i dont wanna sound like super needy cuz im not. im juss wondering))

2006-10-08 13:11:29 · 13 answers · asked by *BR0WN EYESz <3 2 in Singles & Dating

When is it branned to early for sex with a guy u just started seeing? After the first two dates? after a month? Dont want to come off as a slag..please help..X x x

2006-10-08 13:11:07 · 25 answers · asked by Mamisita 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been daying this guy for a long time and he asked me if i could give him oral sex and ive been doin it for about a month now but im afraid he would never give me it, how do i find out if he would.i want it so bad. he thinks guys are not supposed to do it.

2006-10-08 13:09:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl i like that told me to call her when i got back from my trip so I did and we talked for a little bit then she said she would call me back later and she did. we talked a little bit more then she said she had to go to the store and she would call me when she got back. she didnt call back and hasnt called at all today. what does this mean? im not sure if i should call her or not because i dont want to seem pushy. what should i do?

2006-10-08 13:09:28 · 4 answers · asked by zorlandkeirwulf 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I find a hot boy without getting hurt or kidnapped? Where I live everyone is too sexual! Boys can be so immature at times. Sometimes if you find a respectable boy they won't be to bad, but where I am everyone is bad!

2006-10-08 13:09:05 · 7 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Singles & Dating

but I want to stall.... I believe it's a mid-life thing, also a heavy weed smoker, is there anyway I can insist on him seeking help or going for marriage counseling???? He's 57, weve been married 13 years, says he just doesnt want to be married anymore, wants to be alone, there is no one else...just feels boxed into a marriage and wants to be alone...he has moved in and out 3 times in the past 3 years ( always moves back to his mothers) but up till now never filed....I had just kept praying he'd get his head right, but he says he's happier now, he wants us just to be "best friends" like the old days...laugh and hang out together...I want my husband, not a "buddy", he still comes over 2-3 times a week, just to eat a sandwich, watch tv....then back to mommas house.....all my friends/family say let him go...I deserve so much better than this, but I honestly believe he's sick with all of the smoking, just suddenly went from Mr nice Guy to Dr Jeckell overnite?? Any suggestions? Please? Tx

2006-10-08 13:09:03 · 26 answers · asked by Liddy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there is a boy at school and i don't know if he likes me, and i like him a little, what should i do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

2006-10-08 13:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Friends