my boyfriend takes long to get an erection?

Question

ive been sleeping with this guy for a long time now and sometimes it takes a long time before his penis gets hard. does that mean he is not turned on by me.

Answer 1

honey..do you do anything to help him get an erection?...if not, why don't you try putting his penis in your mouth and gently licking and sucking it till he gets hard...then you can continue and let him shoot his semen in your mouth...from then on, when his c*ck goes in your mouth, he will be hard a lot faster

Answer 2

Have you ever considered that maybe fast doesn’t always mean more enjoyable?

Personally, I’d prefer to enjoy a prolonged ‘high’ for as long as possible without wasting it on an unsatisfactory, quick male orgasm!

Also, it is a myth that an erection equals true pleasure. Not true. Any guy can have a 30 second erection and ejaculation if he wants to fake it. But that’s not enjoyable.

Maybe your boy is just trying to delay it all so that he can enjoy you and the moments before – you know what.

Think about it, with your boy’s natural talent, the two of you could go on for hours on end!

Sweat it, but don’t sweat it, girl, if you know what I mean.

Answer 3

Its perfectly normal for males and females its call a refractory period. It's the recovery phase after orgasm. A 18-year-old may have a refractory period of 15 minutes, while those in there 70's takes about 20 hours! But the average for all men is about half-hour. But the important thing to remember is that it is normal.

Answer 4

No it simply means you need me to F U C K the snot out of you until he's ready,that's all.

Answer 5

could be, depends on how you try to turn him on, also alcohol and drugs effect a mans hard on if their using them.

Answer 6

Maybe, then again, He might have medical problems too. ask him