When is it branned to early for sex with a guy u just started seeing? After the first two dates? after a month? Dont want to come off as a slag..please help..X x x
2006-10-08 13:11:07 · 25 answers · asked by Mamisita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask, then it's too early.
2006-10-08 13:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are.
If you're a virgin (and I don't say you are) and desperate to lose it to anyone who comes along, then even the first date will get you what you want.
If you're not desperate to lose it, have a little patience. You'll know yourself when the right man or the right time comes along.
If you're not a virgin and looking for sex but don't want to be branded a sl-ut, wait for some time. Let a few dates pass, and things will work out naturally.
If you're not a virgin and looking for a long term relationship (especially marriage) don't do it with him till after marriage. Premarital sex is one of the main reasons for the huge number of divorces we see all around us. Because the joy of discovery is gone long before you tie the knot, and it's all "known territory" for both partners.
Trust me on this, and be happy.
2006-10-08 20:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are no rules in love and lust. It is more about the emotion at the time than the timing of the action.
Do it for the wrong emotion and you may be branded a slag but then again it may also depend on your partners take on the situation at the time.
Life's difficult but there for living........sorry probably no help at all.
2006-10-08 20:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set time scale as to when you should and shouldn't have sex. All i will say is make him work for it, don't give it up to easy or quickly. If you do us men are stupid and we think that your easy and nobody wants a easy girl for a girl friend. If i had to put a time line to it i would around six weeks. Good luck x
2006-10-09 03:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mattie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same dilema as you- we've been going out for a month, and we've kind of said we both want to, but now I don't want it to be awkward or expected next time I see him.
As long as you're both comfortable, it shouldn't matter how long it's been.
2006-10-10 09:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by jowigley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MENTAL C AS GOT IT RIGHT MY DAUGHTER WAS 20 WHEN SHE ASKED ME TO GO TO THE G.P WITH HER TO SORT HERSELF OUT WITH CONTRACEPTION. ABOUT 5 MONTHS LATER SHE SAID TO ME I THINK I'M READY FOR A MORE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER BOYFRIEND OF 5 MONTHS I WAS HORRIFIED AND SAID NO NATALIE WAIT A FEW MORE YEARS LIKE WHEN YOUR 39 WOULD BE GOOD SHE DIDNT LISTEN I WONDER WHY?
ANYWAY MARMASITA YOU SOUND LIKE A YOUNG SCHOOL GIRL ARE YOU? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG AT ALL IF THAT IS THE CASE IF NOT I APPOLOGISE XXX
GOODNIGHT EVERYONE BACK TOMMORROW WITH MORE WORDS OF WISDOM
2006-10-08 20:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by no nonsence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to decide if you are compatible. Why do you feel you have to before you've decide you really want to ?
The process really is not have a chat have a snog have sex.
2006-10-09 07:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it feels right to share yourself with your man.
i've had girlfriends who've i've bonked within the first few dates and ended up with them for years.
others i've waited months to become intimate and went out for a year or so afterwards.
it's all up to you and your emotions. but for me it's much better to know what you're getting before you tie that knot than end up with a dud that your stuck with for the rest of your life.
2006-10-08 21:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least 6 dates( minimum ) and you both want it. Otherwise you appear too easy, as in sl ut. Sorry.
2006-10-08 20:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a week.
2006-10-08 20:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋