I'm SO SICK of my sister!! (This is for real, If you can help... pleasa do.)?

Question

Every night my older sister will senk her boy friend into the house and they're doing it in the room beside mine while I HAVE to watch THEIR baby. I sick of having to listen to them. She's 25 and shw won't move out. and that good for nothing.... boy that she's with won't fix the house that my parents bought for them. I AM SO SICK OF THIS!!!!!!!! Should I tell my mom what thye are doing? Is anybody else.... in the world going throught anything like this?? I NEED HELP! I can't do this anymore! Should I go see my school shrink, or will she come back and tell my mom? I'm on the edge! I feel like I'm about to cry right now. PLEASE... somebody with any advice on how I can put up with this any longer? I'm 16, and I've already been through an eating disorder (my mom doesn't know. my friends helped me with it.) and I'm haveing thoughts of sucide because of this. This is for real and I need help!!

she has already been married once and has a 5 year old that she gave full custdy to the daddy when thet got divorced. The reason for the divorce was b/c of this goofy SOB right here. she cheated and that was it. She has been here for almost a year now and HE is here EVERY NIGHT, EVERY DAY!!! I always see his stupid face!!! I stay with my best friend a lot. Her mom know's a little bit about what is going on and said that I can stay here as long as I need to.

I think that I want to talk to somebody about it.... but is there any way to talk to somebody without them knowing who I am.

Answer 1

1-800-448-3000

Answer 2

Give your sister this option: You will tell your mother what she is doing if she takes advantage of you one more time. If that's not an option for you, tell your parents what she is doing but tell your parents you don't want them to let your sister know that you told on her. Have your mom find your sister and the boyfriend together. BY the way, isn't the boyfriend a little to old to be speaking in windows. How humiliating!

Answer 3

i can see your very stressed out and your doing the right thing of staying over at your freinds house. You need to tell your parents what's going on and see if they can stop your sisster from bringing him over or something and ask your parents to talk to your sister about finding some place to live i mean she's TWENTY FIVE for gods sake. Calm down and what ever you do DON'T CUMITE SUCISIDE this can be fixed just calm down and take a deep breath i hope this advice has helped.

Answer 4

Out of respect for your sister you should talk to her about this and tell her how much it bugs you! No matter how bad ANY situation gets, you will ALWAYS be sisters! You shouldn't let some dumb guy come between the relationship you guys have. Not to mention, if you blow up too badly you might be able to see the children that you are an aunt to. I'm sorry to hear that she didn't fight for her other child that she had with her ex-husband. That's horrible! I'm a stepmother to 3 little boys and their biological mother just signed over sole-custody of them to my husband. Of course, now she says that we STOLE them from her but she's a little crazy. But this isn't about me. You really should talk to a professional about this. If you have a school counselor you should be able to talk to them. If I'm not mistaken they are not allowed to tell your parents unless you give them permission. Set up an appointment and ask them straight up if they will tell your parents because you don't want your parents to know. You should also tell your sister (if it bothers you that much) that you WILL NOT watch their baby so they can go have sex in the room right beside you. Or you could tell your sister that if she is going to have sex (if that part doesn't bother you) to keep it down so that you don't have to listen to it. It can be a stressful situation, especially for a 16 year-old but you have to deal with this like an adult! You need to quit thinking of suicide ... nothing is worth that! You haven't even lived a quarter of your life yet. Things will get better but you have to get in control of the situation. You need to make it clear that you don't like being jerked around like that! And to be honest, if you don't like your sister's boyfriend you should probably keep it to yourself. Yea, he might be horrible but if you tell your sister you don't like him ... she's just going to get mad at you and you are not going to change her mind no matter what you say! She's the ONLY one that can change her mind and she's the ONLY one who can change the way she's acting. Hang in there! Keep strong! And if you need to talk I'm here. Good Luck!

Answer 5

You need to talk to your parents. They need to know what your sister is doing to you. It' one thing if your sister was doing this with out involving you, but she is. So it is your business to tell your parents. Don't allow you sister to treat you this way. She is the one who had that baby, so that baby is fully her responsibility, not yours. You are only sixteen!! You have other things to worry about- like school. You most definitely need to tell your parents. You are too stress out over something that shouldn't even involve you. Next time your sister tells you to watch the baby, tell her "you had her, you watch her"- simply say no!! I wish you luck and I hope that your parents back you up 100%.

Answer 6

Yes you should discuss this with your mother! You seem to be more mature than your older sister! She has absolutely no respect for your mother or your mothers house or you. She needs to respect the two of you or she needs to get put out. That's your mothers responsibility to enforce this. You tell her NO the next time she asks you to baby sit for her like that. YOU be strong and stand up for yourself. Don't consider suicide because it doesn't serve a purpose and would hurt your mother and the people who love you and care about you. I hate hearing about this kind of thing. If only I were able to get involved!!! You look out for yourself you hear.

Answer 7

She is seeking the guy in???? Your Mom doesn't know,or doesn't want to know. If I were you I would take the baby into your Mom's room and ask her if she could watch the baby,that you're not feeling good. she should ask why your sister can't watch her own baby. Tell her that she is busy with (guys name) in her room. Then sit back and watch the fireworks!

Answer 8

OMG!!!! Honey, I feel so sorry 4 u and the answer to all of this IS NOT SUICIDE!!!!! Tell ur mom before it gets worse! Talk to your friends at school, teachers, counsilers, ANYONE!!!!! It was the right thing to tell people about this. And most importantly, tell your sister how you feel about her, whatever, problem with her boyfriend.

Answer 9

iight grl....chill. dont start thinkin bout suicide. one of my friends killed himself a cupl years ago and he probly had no idea how much he would hurt me or his family by doin so. im jus now gettin ovr it and itz been 2 years and 5 days. im beggin u...PLEEZ DONT KILL YRSELF! u dont hav ne idea how much u will hurt evryone u leev bhind. talk 2 yr sister. tell her that if she duznt stop then u will tell yr mom. hopefully that'll get her 2 think about wut she'z puttin u through. if it duznt work then seriously tell yr mom. yr sister needs 2 live her own life on her own. she needs to move out or start being responsible. if u evr need anyone 2 talk 2...my email address is [e-mail]. hope this helps!
<3 erin

Answer 10

Talk to your parents or maybe you sister. Just take a deep breath this is no reason to get all upset and kill yourself. But if you do feel this strongly about it talk to your parents.