ive been daying this guy for a long time and he asked me if i could give him oral sex and ive been doin it for about a month now but im afraid he would never give me it, how do i find out if he would.i want it so bad. he thinks guys are not supposed to do it.
2006-10-08 13:09:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One good blow deserves another. Tell him that if he want to received then he also needs to give or receive no more.
2006-10-08 13:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he thinks guy are not supposed to do it. why does he think you should do it for him? THAT IS VERY SELFISH OF HIM! In a relationship you guys should be treated equally, one is not better than the other. You guys work together. STOP DOING IT TO HIM ASAP. Explain to him he is being a hypocrite and you do it to him because you want to please him, and that it hurts you that he doesnt feel the same. Tell him you want to experience oral pleasure also and its not right he wants you to do it but he wont. If he wont do it then suggest you take that part of your sexual technique out. Make sure you mean it. DONT do it anymore. because it is unfair that you give and give. But you do not receive.
2006-10-08 20:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get his friends to tell him it is the thing, and if he still don't den u need to stop giving him oral sex, then sooner or later he'll go down on you, wen he realize he can't have what he want. Or u can just leave him after a while.
2006-10-08 20:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you shouldn't be doing things for people in anticipation that you will get something in return. There are names for that and none of them are nice. Secondly, you should only be doing things that you genuinely want to. Finally, if this is so important to you maybe you're with the wrong person and you should be looking for someone who understands that giving is as good as receiving.
2006-10-08 20:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Seriously, if he isn't doing it yet, he probably won't come around to doing it ever. If you are both really young, he may decide one day to do that, but probably not with you. He sounds selfish and you sound like you just want to please him instead of loving and pleasing yourself. Grow up a little and get a new bf.
2006-10-08 20:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want and need. If he is not willing than find another guy. He is obviuosly to selfish to waste your time on. Damn if my man did not take care of business he would not be my man for long.
2006-10-08 20:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by jmpblondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl fair exchange ain't no robbery. That should have been your response in the first place.
Now you gotta tell him that ya'll could 68 and you'll owe him one.
2006-10-08 20:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, if you guys aren'tcomfortable enough to discuss what each of you wants sexually, then you shouldn't be doing anything.
That aside, have you even asked him about it? If you have, and he said no, then stop doing for him and see how he likes it. If not, then ASK!
2006-10-08 20:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell him girls art eather and stop doing for him turn about is fair play is what I always heard to me he's a male shovenest and selfishsorry to dog your guy but truth is the truth
2006-10-08 20:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol he's funny! Hun just leave that dude alone and get with a guy who can satisfy the way you want! Don't waste your time with him!
2006-10-08 20:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Black Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋