some men not all men when they buy they lover a gift or dinner they think they own them. I have hard some men say I took you out to dinner and you disrespect me like that I spend my hard earn money on you. $6.00. back in the days men would buy women chicken or fish dinners and they feel like they own them because they spend 7.00 dollar's on them.
2006-10-08 13:21:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No one can OWN anyone else. Just because a guy buys you a gift or buys you dinner doesn't mean anything. If he feels that he owns you as you put it you might want to think about the relationship.
2006-10-08 13:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can almost understand why a guy would feel like he "owns" a girl after he's invested his time and hard earned $6.00 on her. It is pretty stupid though. If a guy comes out and says that to you, or makes you feel like that, then I really don't think he's a great guy to be with. To a guy like that, his money and time are worth more than you, which isn't good. You want to be higher up on your guy's priority list than that! And also be wary of any guy who starts getting too possessive of you...no good!
2006-10-08 20:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt. if you put a down payment on a cadillac do you own it. no because you are still paying the dealer. if i a guy tries that with you, then go out and buy him somethinng and then say now i own you. get buff with him and dont let him take charge of you. if he even thinks about hitting you you better go off on him, get a broom stick or something and kick his butt until he backs off. then hell know that you are not one to be messed with. if he threatens you with a guy, when he is sleep take his gun and point it straight at him so when he wakes up he knows that you will shoot him if he ever in his life tries to hurt you again and always keep it with you. but ill give you one better, if you dont want to go to violence then leave him and find a better stronger man like your own personal body guard so that hell know never to come near you again.
hope u dont have to experience what so many women have experienced and have gotten killed over because they didnt know how to fight back. you better do like j.lo did in enough and take up boxing so you will know how to end that abusive relationship right in its tracks.
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-08 20:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by cece 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wise to spend time with those kind of guys. Yes there are so many , guys and girls, trying to buy affection.
I always offer to pay for my meals, if a guy refuses to let me, then that is his fault.
I can't be bought with money or gifts, But love and affection will make a darn good down payment.
2006-10-08 20:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you may be a little gullible and these guys take advantage of it.
No, you don't "owe" them anything. It was nice of them. Did you say thanks? If you did, then the debt is paid. If it bothers you that this seems to be a pattern for you, next time pay for your own. That way no debt can be claimed by whatever man you are with.
It is an easy way to avoid the misunderstanding.
2006-10-08 20:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eeek, I don't think anyone can buy another. When I give gifts or buy dinner to a woman I'm trying to date, I know that I can't expect her to be a profit, obligued to anything. I actually don't see that part. I just see that I want to make her feel nice, rather than obligued when taking her to nice places, or giving her something special.
2006-10-08 20:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Roberto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he does not own you for buying you dinner or getting you a gift. It's supposed to be his way of showing you that he cares about you not own you
2006-10-08 20:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by prtybrneyez1081 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buying a gift for someone DOES NOT constitute them as "owning " you or anyone else. If some one brought me a gift or dinner and then told me that they owned me, Id either give the gift back and kick them to the curb or give them financial restitution and then kick them to the curb........only neanderthols think that they own somone by doing someothing for them.
2006-10-08 20:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Linda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the guys you date, but the ones I know don't feel that way. I wouldn't think much of myself if I went for the price of a movie and dinner.
2006-10-08 20:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey if a guy takes you to dinner he does not own you! He is the one that invited you and he should just be happy with you company there. He invites you and you repay him by being his company at dinner.
2006-10-08 20:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋