Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

So, I have a thing for older guys. I'm 20 and my currnent boyfriend is 37. Ive been with him for almost a year now, and I am very much in love with him and we're about to move in together. He gives me the world, and is very honest, genuine and sincere. He is very faithful (TRUST ME--HE IS) and soooo sweet. He is an amazing cook and sooo considerate. He's something that you actually read about but dont think that men like that actually exist. So...yes, I am very fortuante to have him.

Prior to him I was involved with another guy who is 40. We met 2 1/2 years ago and first started as friends but there was immediate, intense attraction between us. And we began to date. However, early into the relationship, practically before we did anything with him, he told me that he had a "girl" and was involved with someone. He said that he wanted to let me know before things went to another level. I hesitated very much at first, but the temptation between us was too much to bear (cont'd below)

2006-10-06 04:39:44 · 3 answers · asked by Roselyn 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a guy his name is Josh Cross the last place i know him being in is Floridia but he might be in Tennesse please help me find him.

2006-10-06 04:39:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone had any experience of meeting new people in a singles group/club?, is it good to do that?, is it fun to meet people that way when it's obvious everybody is looking!!! and not exactly having fun?

2006-10-06 04:38:05 · 3 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Singles & Dating

ABOUT MOTHER.
HOW CAN I LET HER NOW I LOVE HER SO MUCH.
SHE SAYS I HAVE CHANGED WITH HER
BUT I HAVE BEEN REAL BUSY I AM A SINGEL MOTHER OF FIVE AND WORK SO I HARDLY HAVE TIME TO BE WITH HER OR MY KIDS BUT I HAVE TOLD HER THIS AND SHE STILL FEELS HURT.

WHAT CAN I DO

2006-10-06 04:37:25 · 13 answers · asked by Solitaire 7 in Family

but i am a good person i am like a bomb ready to go off i dont believe in drugs and i wont see a doctor for brain washing what would u do

2006-10-06 04:36:08 · 7 answers · asked by jyescalis@verizon.net 1 in Family

2006-10-06 04:35:17 · 13 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2 in Singles & Dating

Should an unfortunate event take place and i'm not married anymore, Who wouldn't mind being my man?
I'm short, shoulder- lenght hair, caramel-complex, 120 pounds, but nicely shaped.

2006-10-06 04:35:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he spends more time with them than me. what should i say to him?

2006-10-06 04:33:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has gone back with her BF who has cheated on her, who gotten married to another girl, and got another pregnant. And I'm afraid that he's not going to change. He tells her he's change and promise that he won't do it again. And yet he's still married but he doesn't live with his wife. I have a feeling that he still that he's still with his baby's mama and my friend.

My friend even pushed our friendship aside and push her family away...and all we want is for her to be safe and happy.

2006-10-06 04:32:50 · 10 answers · asked by ladyrose31474 1 in Friends

What is the most annoying thing that men do and that women do? For me, it is men not washing their hands in the rest room and women doing their makeup in the car.

2006-10-06 04:32:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Campbell Tx and me and a friend went out to the barn to shovel the cow manuer and she fell face first into it and I tried so hard not to laugh we laughed alday about things anyways my uncle doesn't want her back becuase when you put me and he together to work we don't get anything done so how can I tell her that my uncle doesn't want her to help anymore??

2006-10-06 04:32:22 · 7 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Friends

I have knows this guy for 3 months. I now play in a string quartet with him. I like him so much it makes my knees water. When I first met him, we just about asked each other out, but there was a hesitation there. Later, I found out he at least had a serious girlfriend when I met him. He went on a trip, and lately, he has been more open and friendly, and all the evidence is pointing to the idea that he likes me. I want to ask him out again, but I want to find out first what the status is on the girlfriend, because he's simply not giving me any information when I have asked him questions that simply approach at the issue. One of my string quartet members is willing to ask him next week for me if he has a girlfriend, but also, I could just come right out and do it, but I feel shy. Who should ask him? Obviously, he needs to be asked =)

2006-10-06 04:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex were thinking about getting back together. We went out for about 2 yrs. then we broke up, but we still saw each other on a regular basis since we both stay in the same apartment complex. But we were finally thinking about giving it another try. But the problem is that all that time that we've been going together we NEVER had sex and now he keeps saying that he's waited 2 yrs and we should definitely do it. I thought about it and I told him that i'm not ready. I'm not a virgin but I don't want to repeat a mistake twice. Is sex all he wants? Should I give in to his demands? Please!!! no stupid answers or dumb jokes.

2006-10-06 04:31:59 · 22 answers · asked by Foxxy 4 in Singles & Dating

then he call me to say someone came ringing his bell w/out calling. he knew it was me. what should i do?

2006-10-06 04:31:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:30:39 · 13 answers · asked by ms_nida 1 in Weddings

I found out my fiance' raped, killed and mutilated fifteen women in Guatemala. He was sentenced to life in prison, but his family is very wealthy and "bought" his freedom. He tells me is very ashamed of his actions and is a new man, and I believe him. Should I marry him? He is very rich. The only thing that makes me nervous is the one day I came home and found a severed female breast in our bedroom, but he told me it was left over from a botched implant surgery at the hospital where he works, and he just took it so he could throw it in the trash, and then forgot about it. That sounds plausible to me. My heart tells me we're meant to be together, and everyone deserves a second chance. Am I being naive?

2006-10-06 04:30:06 · 40 answers · asked by cdrfish15 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy... he's really good looking, nice, sweet, and funny. but.... he's two years younger.. does that matter?

2006-10-06 04:29:46 · 7 answers · asked by Tiibii 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl I know who wears so much foundation she looks like an orange. How do I tell her without hurting her feelings?

2006-10-06 04:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by castlesinthesky050 1 in Friends

My son's father basically keeps asking me out when he just had a baby by his current live in girlfriend last week. I have a boyfriend that I live with and love very much. My son's fathr and I have not been together since my son was 1 and he is now 6. I talk to him in regards to our son because my sons goes to his house 2 weekends out of the month or sometimes one week plus the two weekends. One minute he is being nice and then the next minute he will flip out on me cussing me out and telling me everything I did wrong in our relationship many moons ago. I basically talk to him for the sake of our son, but I honestly can't stand him. Thank goodness I have a boyfriend that understands and stress over his ways. How can I get him to stop asking me out? To let you know I don't go out with him or lead him to believe I may want to go out with him.

2006-10-06 04:29:29 · 4 answers · asked by Kenya 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been friends with a girl for years. She got closer to me, and I started to develop feelings from her flirting. She told me she never intended to flirt with me when I asked her, and I told her I had no intentions of going out with her, but I now catch her eyes sometimes in group settings. She does not get close to me anymore, but last night she asked me when she would see me next. Then when she left, she said "See you Tuesday!" What is going on?

2006-10-06 04:28:19 · 27 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

thats been sent by bluetooth to your phone?
i was out with friends when i had really dirty pics sent with the caption " how about it baby?"
how sad can men get! lol xx

2006-10-06 04:28:19 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Singles & Dating

Who reported me when I asked the previous 2 questions the one deals with something (orgasm)? Look, whoever reported me for the last 2 question, there are many questions about sex and how come you never report them?

2006-10-06 04:28:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-06 04:28:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 10 yrs and have a child. Since the beginning of my wedded life, his love for me has always been so illusive.At the end of the day, i am always asking myself...why doesn't he love me? He has had many affairs, i've forgiven him all because i always thought of my son and the effect it would have on him if we seperated. I have talked to him, showed him a lot of affection, been there for him whenever he was in trouble.... he hasn;t even handled the family responsibilities well..most of the time the house runs on my earnings.He has mismanaged his earnings a lot. Today we dont even have our own house, or any financial security. He loves our child a lot and both are so happy in each others company. If I leave him, what will happen to my child? No, we aren't having any physical relationship at all and try to survive peacefully under the same roof. He never compliments me, makes me feel so unwanted... but helps a lot in housework. I am confused. What should I do?

2006-10-06 04:28:01 · 34 answers · asked by chweetestme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl I really like, but I'm kinda the shy type, and i don't know how to ask her out. (Note: shy, not insecure)

I've also been told some things about here that I'd really rather I hadn't been. I dont know if theyre true or if the guy who told me was just being evil, but if they are, they seem very out of character, and i'm wondering if maybe I don't know her as well as i thought I did.

I don't know if maybe she's not the person for me, but every time I even think of her going out with someone else, its like (to coin a phrase) it's like some beast awakens within my chest, and I get random bouts of emotion (I mean REALLY srong emotion at that)

Help, I'm so confused

2006-10-06 04:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by Mad Larkin 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:27:26 · 4 answers · asked by Ademola 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 2 years is going on a work related trip with another female. Just the two of them. They have worked together for years and she is like one of the guys. I have met her several times and like her, but I am getting worried. She is married and Ive been to her home as well. She is very outgoing and acts like one of the guys in many aspects. She is moderatley attractive but nothing special. I never worried about the 2 of them before but it is driving me nuts. She left him a message and stated he had a "sexy voice" in a joking manner yesterday. I have never felt threatned by her before-she makes perverted jokes like the guys and is not very feminine. But you never know. AND they are going to one of the party cities of the U.S. That is where the conference is. I know that part is legit, but Im sure they will be going out and partying too. I told my boyfriend it bothers me that he is going to that city but not so much that he is going with her. What should I do?

2006-10-06 04:26:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can chat about anything and everything! Im 23 and from UK. Ive recently got hooked with chatting online! how bout it? Send me an email bigggcoolguy@yahoo.co.uk tell me bout urself! Im not asking for u to be really pretty or anything!

2006-10-06 04:26:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:25:47 · 24 answers · asked by yummy_mummy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have some pretty bad trust issues because of my past (romantic and otherwise) I know they exist and normally i am pretty good about reigning in my fear, but lately i've been quite bad.

It's very hard on the guy that i'm dating because he's done NOTHING to ever make me not trust him, he's brutally honest and is very sweet to me. I hate the fact that sometimes my distrust hurts him, and is now beginning to really upset him.

I need to find a way to trust him before i ruin this.

2006-10-06 04:25:37 · 14 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating