Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

I confronted a good friend of mine because I thought she was flirting with me. She said that she was not and apologized. I told her I had grown feelings, but in her head, she wrote them off as we share much in common. She said she feels the same way and thinks we are good friends. We both agreed we did not want things to be awkward between us. Now, she asked several times what I wanted if anything more than friendship, and I catch her glancing at me in group settings. Our eyes are still meeting and friends of mine have started to notice her actions. What is going on in her head?

2006-10-06 04:49:41 · 6 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:49:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 04:49:32 · 27 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

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3 hours ago
MY KIDS AGES ARE 16 14 13 SORRY IF I DIDNT ADD THAT,,,THANKS

2006-10-06 04:48:54 · 3 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is about 20-22 yrs old living in nowra australia.. graduated in shoalhaven high school.. if you could provide me with her friendster account or myspace if she has one or her email addy.. that would be very appreciated.. you can reply here or to my email. thanksyou very much!!!

2006-10-06 04:48:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would you date a cowgirl with green eye's blonde hair and a great personallity, beautiful 5'9" she loves to go horse back rideing and she works on a farm all the time? just curious!

2006-10-06 04:48:13 · 19 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:47:41 · 36 answers · asked by kmichelle89 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:47:02 · 30 answers · asked by sexy one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont really know what i could do but if i dont want it and she does thats how it seems, will I have to stick with it or what could i do cos i barely turn 18 and i know im not responsible yet and that i dont know what i want and i barely met her.

2006-10-06 04:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by Another Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:46:29 · 6 answers · asked by hotty4u81 1 in Family

My wife after 9yrs left me. (No kids and in our early 30s) We mutally seperated for two months to see what we should do.... I tried to learn about myself and he was to do the same as a "relationship break". Found out she started dating a guy three weeks after we seperated. I met someone three months after and have a great time with a great women.. Now my "ex" wife wants us to reconsider. She says she misses what we had and that it was indeed special... We never had any major problems like alcahol, drugs or affairs, not even an ugly nasty fight, only arguments that I would consider normal. We trusted each other and enjoyed time together but she thought we fell out of love and thus atrted to drift other ways.. W hat would you do... So confused as maybe I should try again w her but have met someone who is promising and again have a great relation but wonder what can be... I want to be fair but what would you do??

2006-10-06 04:46:20 · 20 answers · asked by Charles in Boston 1 in Marriage & Divorce

10 points will be awarded to the person who figures out the correct answer. good luck!

2006-10-06 04:45:54 · 26 answers · asked by www.mrcooldude.com 2 in Friends

I'm ready to have a family, but I don't know if I'm ready financially. How much money should my husband and I have/make to be comfortable? (Upstate NY)

2006-10-06 04:45:41 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2 in Family

My wife and I have been married for 2 years, and it seems that the longer we're married, the bossier she gets! I don't know what it is, but it's like she's more like my mother and not my wife. I know she loves me, but I'm not so sure she "likes" me anymore...does that make sense? How can we have a more loving, caring relationship?

2006-10-06 04:44:37 · 26 answers · asked by nomoretv4me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my boyfriend and one of his associates and when i was ready to leave his friend called me by the name of my boyfriend's ex. I was so pissed off at my boyfriend because he didn't speak up and say anything to the guy like that isn't her name. at least say something. the friend told my guy that the reason he thought I was his ex was because he heard through someone else that my boyfriend and his ex were always feuding and he just assumed it was me. Is that bullshit or what? I say my boyfriend must have been around this guy with his ex. Shouldn't i be pissed off?

2006-10-06 04:44:01 · 17 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:43:43 · 25 answers · asked by nique 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Friends

2006-10-06 04:43:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bad *** liers

2006-10-06 04:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by sexy one 1 in Singles & Dating

i heard the 30's...

2006-10-06 04:43:05 · 11 answers · asked by mr.kick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi everyone i just wanted to know where everybody's from, so where ya from?

2006-10-06 04:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so, me and the cutest boy in my scool mett on yahoo messenger.. we chatt sometimes and we get along really good.. in scool we greet each other but nothing more... he sometimes looks at me and i allways watch him... we flirted oance on the messenger.. i think he likes me, and i'm trying to get to talk to him in scool... he just came to me today but i didn't say anything because i was to nervous... How can i find out if he likes me or not? if a get a good answer i promise i will give u 10points or whatever...

2006-10-06 04:42:14 · 9 answers · asked by confused1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 04:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by NSill 1 in Friends

I'm married and I love to fantasize about my husband raping me. Is this wrong or abnormal? Please don't be mean. I just want to see what the typical public thinks about this. Thank you!

2006-10-06 04:42:07 · 36 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl that I thought was nice. My friends really liked her tho, so I started to like her more and more. We found out that she had a bf, and me and one of my friends stopped liking her, cuz my friends (not me) were asking her questions like 'do you have a bf?' after she knew we liked her and she was thinking all of us were wierd. The other friend that likes her keeps staring at her all the time and she is very wierded out (only by him). I thought I was over her, until the friend that stopped liking her told me that he has become very good friends with the girl over aim. Questions: 1) Would my friend that still likes her flip out if she knew my friend was friends with her? 2) Why am I becoming jealous after I thought I was over her?

2006-10-06 04:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-06 04:40:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had asked whether it is in order for friends to share partners for sex. A friend responded that "only in West Virginia". So, is true like that in West Virginia?

2006-10-06 04:40:19 · 13 answers · asked by Nyatonga J 1 in Friends

my hubby and i are splitting up...he's 10 years older than me. i dint think age mattered, in fact, if anything i thought he'd be wiser, more mature and more sensible?...right, lets just say, i was wrong.
my previous boyfriend was 5 years younger, and wild and wanton but not as informed and sharp with money as my current hubby. but i loved him to bits and he me, but he had to return to his own home country and well, i went 2 visit twice, but then it ended when he asked me to wait to get married. i had made all the plans...i felt defeated.
maybe i should get a woman? sigh...i wonder...do you think its better to go older, or younger?

2006-10-06 04:40:15 · 14 answers · asked by Wisdom 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this boy but i don't thnk he knows at first i had a feeling that he liked me because in math class he always kept on looking at me and he still does and my friends told him if he likes me and he said no because he would not date no one lower than his grade because i'm in 7th grade and he is in 8th grade what should i do?

2006-10-06 04:40:02 · 5 answers · asked by Claudia C 1 in Singles & Dating

every time i start to date a guy i end up losing interest after baout a week and want to get away from him this has happened several times and i dont want it to i like guys and i would like a boyfriend but i cant seem to stay with one because of me losing interest what should i do

2006-10-06 04:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Singles & Dating