I dont really know what i could do but if i dont want it and she does thats how it seems, will I have to stick with it or what could i do cos i barely turn 18 and i know im not responsible yet and that i dont know what i want and i barely met her.
2006-10-06 04:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by Another Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want a baby, use a condom! I know a guy who's 27 and got a girl pregnant 10 yrs ago. She coaxed him into having sex without a condom. What a mistake! The last 10 years have been hellish for him. He said he was young and stupid and didn't think of the consequences. Do you have any idea how much of his money has gone to child support over the past 10 yrs? And everytime he gets a new job, his child's mother takes him to court trying to get more money out of him. His child's mother will always be there. And every one of his girlfriends has to deal with her. The mother plays games with him all the time and it's so sad. If you don't want a baby, then stop this before it's too late!
2006-10-06 04:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you dont want to hear this, but you really should have used a freakin condom! First off, you never said if she really was pregnant or not?! It doesnt mean that shes pregnant if you didnt use a condom! It could happen and it could not. But anyway, not too many people are thrilled about getting pregnant and having abortions, so if she wants to keep the baby (that is IF she is pregnant) then nothing you say will change her mind. It is up to you if you want to be there for the baby or not.. you are too young to be married, but not too young to be responsible. Talk to her though, and explain how you feel! Im sorry that you are in this situation right now.. but I hope all goes well for you, and I hope that this experience makes you realise that protection is ALWAYS necessary.. best of luck to u!
2006-10-06 12:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Zoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are responsible at least financially for that child until it reaches age 18, which is why you shouldn't have gone in the pool without your waders. Only you can decide if you want to pursue a relationship with the child or the mom. You should hope that she's not pregnant, and from now on... keep the raincoat on when you're playing in the rain.
2006-10-06 11:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a little too late for that!! u 2 should sit down and talk about the possibilities of becoming parents!! Odds R she won't get pregnant. If she does get a paternity test! If when had sex with u with a condom then she probably have done it with others.
2006-10-06 11:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by mekhia81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan on working hard for the next 18 years to pay your child support each and every month so you don't have to go to jail. It is much less expensive to buy those condoms; and it is not her responsiblility to provide them. If you play you will pay, just how much is up to you.
2006-10-06 11:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, r u sure shes even pregnant? Hey, if u take her to the abortion clinic within 48 hrs, she can take a pill. Costs about 70 dollars. I had to do that a few times with my girl.
2006-10-06 11:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're screwed and whether you like it not, if she falls pregnant, make her get a paternity test to make sure who the father is. If it's yours, then dude it's your call. But next time, slap on a bloody condom
2006-10-06 11:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when having sex you should always protect yourself whether the girl cares or not. you should always use a condom, meaning you should carry them with you.
2006-10-06 13:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My be she just don'e like the smell of condom like me...LOL
2006-10-06 11:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by burnin_priya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋