every time i start to date a guy i end up losing interest after baout a week and want to get away from him this has happened several times and i dont want it to i like guys and i would like a boyfriend but i cant seem to stay with one because of me losing interest what should i do
2006-10-06 04:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It should take more than a week before you really like them in the first place. I would go on dates with several guys and don't be exclusive until one of them stands out. that is what dating is. Just because you go on a date or 10 dates doesn't mean you are an item.
Try to focus on really getting to know the guy and not how does he fit your requirements. We have a tendency to put up expectation on someone when we first like them, and fool ourselves into thinking they are what we want without ever really getting to know that person. So when we learn who that person is, our image of who they are changes and often we are disapointed.
But remember, the more requirements you have for a lover the harder they are to find and the harder it will be for you to be happy.
2006-10-06 04:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously one of several things has happened.
1. You're just not really interested in a relationship at all, and are just trying to convince yourself you are because everyone else thinks you should be. In this case, I would just drop it and start doing somethign else.
2. You just haven't met the right guy yet. In this case, just go on trying.
3. You either get bored because these guys are too perfect and therefore not a challenge to get, or you get disgusted because they provided a nice fun challenge but then you realize they're losers. In this case, you'll need to accept decent guys as they are rather than always seeking a challenge.
2006-10-06 04:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating guys that are a challenge and not so easily controlled because that is what is probably boring you. Plus finding one that you have something in common with might help
2006-10-06 04:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Keep looking!
Doesn't sound like your old enough to live in.
"boys"
Stop looking for an instant cure. Dating is the sorting period.
Sounds to me you have no special things like hobbies activities.
When "YOU' want to spend time with a dude. Work at it!
2006-10-06 04:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Depends on whta u r looking 4 in a guy !
2006-10-06 04:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by rolls987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to make yourself stay interested. if you lose interest oh well.
2006-10-06 04:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Random Nimrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more picky about your choices maybe.
2006-10-06 04:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERAPY
2006-10-06 04:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋