I met this girl that I thought was nice. My friends really liked her tho, so I started to like her more and more. We found out that she had a bf, and me and one of my friends stopped liking her, cuz my friends (not me) were asking her questions like 'do you have a bf?' after she knew we liked her and she was thinking all of us were wierd. The other friend that likes her keeps staring at her all the time and she is very wierded out (only by him). I thought I was over her, until the friend that stopped liking her told me that he has become very good friends with the girl over aim. Questions: 1) Would my friend that still likes her flip out if she knew my friend was friends with her? 2) Why am I becoming jealous after I thought I was over her?
2006-10-06 04:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be honest sounds to me like its more a question of not being jealous but wondering what could have happened. If you still think about her and have feelings for her but you just don't want to look dumb if she isn't into you contact her leave it on her hands to decide what to do. I was in the same situation. I didn't think I really cared about this guy and two years later I contacted him. Now he is my husband.
2006-10-06 05:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by NSill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you still have feelings for her. The fact that she is spending time (internet time) with someone else especially someone you know makes you want her more. I think your friend that REALLY likes her would flip out if he found about the net friendship. I guess it doesn't matter if she still has a boyfriend, no one really has a chance, if she has broken things off with him, get back in the game!
Best Wishes!
2006-10-06 04:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey frn u still like her i suppose n u still have some feelings for her. dont ignore them if u think tht the gal u like is good n fit for u just built up ur esteem ur confidence n let the gal know tht u like her. if u r late u will b out of nothing but with ur lineliness n none of ur frns will come to u to share thet moment, if u feel tht she is not right for u just ignore her n njoy ur life n search for other follow the law of nature. keep smiling.
2006-10-06 05:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by heart k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not over her. You should get to know her over Aim too. And Your friend might flip, so as a peace offering, offer him her sn.
2006-10-06 04:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by yourstruley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think you might just still have feelings for her
And I think that yes, your friend would be jealous if he found out that you friend has become such good friends with her.
2006-10-06 04:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by distortedbeauty2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmm . . .Reality Check! ! ! The fact that you're jealous means you're still in love with the girl! Have a good check, dear . . . .Its also possible that you're just in a state of denial!
It happens! Its normal!
2006-10-06 05:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jomaxee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not over her. You need to get over her though, you don't want her coming between you & your friend.
2006-10-06 04:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not over her try to make things work out if she doesn't have a bf nw you never know
2006-10-06 04:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not jealousy dude, its immaturity
2006-10-06 04:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋