I confronted a good friend of mine because I thought she was flirting with me. She said that she was not and apologized. I told her I had grown feelings, but in her head, she wrote them off as we share much in common. She said she feels the same way and thinks we are good friends. We both agreed we did not want things to be awkward between us. Now, she asked several times what I wanted if anything more than friendship, and I catch her glancing at me in group settings. Our eyes are still meeting and friends of mine have started to notice her actions. What is going on in her head?
2006-10-06 04:49:41 · 6 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably likes you and just wants to preserve the friendship. Many friends become attracted to eachother but then think of the risks, like losing the person as a friend and won't pursue a relationship. If you have feelings for her, let her know, you never know she might be your soul mate!
Good Luck and Best Wishes!!
2006-10-06 04:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's confused. She may have started to grow feelings for you and not realized it, then got embarrassed when you confronted her. Now that you've pointed it out though, she's actively thinking about it, and either hasn't come to a conclusion or thinks that maybe she has developed a crush on you. But, since she's already shot you down, she's too embarrassed to back track or do anything about it and she's hoping that maybe you'll make another move. Go ahead and answer her question, make your move, or, if you're too timid yourself to do any of the above, ask one of those friends of yours to ask her about her feelings for you.
2006-10-06 12:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. It probly turned her on that you were having feelings for her. BUT it may be a game with her now. If shes looking at you and smiling and in different ways to you, flirting, then shes playing with you. Its a game to her. Its not right, so if she is doing these things off and on, Id call her on it. Dont make a move towards her, cuz then she'll say you forced yourself on her.
Be careful and just pay attention to her actions. I would definately let her know what shes doing, if she continues.
2006-10-06 11:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you? New? Or did you fall off a turnip truck? No man will ever know what is going on in a woman's head. If anybody finds out what a woman is thinking they just sort of disappear and nobody ever finds out what happened to them. It is a dangerous area so forewarned is forearmed.
2006-10-06 11:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's words refer to the situation she is in. Her actions tell you what she wants.
2006-10-06 11:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she want's you to ask her out
2006-10-06 11:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋