What can I DO?

Question

ABOUT MOTHER.
HOW CAN I LET HER NOW I LOVE HER SO MUCH.
SHE SAYS I HAVE CHANGED WITH HER
BUT I HAVE BEEN REAL BUSY I AM A SINGEL MOTHER OF FIVE AND WORK SO I HARDLY HAVE TIME TO BE WITH HER OR MY KIDS BUT I HAVE TOLD HER THIS AND SHE STILL FEELS HURT.

WHAT CAN I DO

Answer 1

May be she is just feeling so lonely, so I know that it may be hard, but try and pamper her a little, try and call her, the time you do have off, like when you go to the store, call and see if she wants to tag along, Since you are so busy, take one day out of the month, and that will be your day with her, I think if you will do that, that will be a time that you will always remember, because things happen so fast now. take her to get her nails or feet done, and another time go out and have tea, some thing small, even one day just stay home and cook all of your favorite meals, an invite the family over! Send her a card, and tell her how much she means to you, and that you thank God, that he could not have given you a better Mom!!

Answer 2

Try to set some time aside where you can be with your mother and also be around the kids as well. Like make one day a day that you spend time with your mom. It doesn't have to be the whole day maybe lunch or something or just brining the kids to your moms house and spending time with her. You know. Understanable your busy, but your mom still loves you and just wants to be apart of your life.

Answer 3

She should realize your a mother a single mother and have to work to feed your kids so you might not beable to spened all the time with her that you have your own kids and bills and things to worry about and that it's not that you don't love her sorry but thats sounds like selfishness to me but however next time your at the story get her a card any card and her favoret flower or a flower you think she might like just 1 flower send the flower to her with the card it's a small thing but it will make her feel like the whole world

Answer 4

Try including her in some of your families activities, or asking her over for dinner and she can help you cook or watch the kids while you prepare dinner. In this way you are still spending that quality time with your kids, your kids get the benefit of having their grandma around, you get a helping hand, and your mom feels loved and useful.

Answer 5

Always try to take at least 5 minutes to call your mom & tell her you love her. I know it's hard to juggle all that & some. Mom has to understand that she has to let go a little cuase you got your own family to take care of & a job.

Answer 6

I think she would like it if you got together once a week or two weeks to chat or out for lunch or over for supper. Maybe just a phone call when you get home from work .

Answer 7

honey all moms fill like there kids dont spend enough time with them may be one sunday afternoon you could take her out with you and have a nice lunch moms just want love

Answer 8

I know you have your hands full, but is it possible to spend some time just 1 day a month with her?

Answer 9

involve her when you bring your kids out or have her stay with you once in a while.

yes you are busy, i understand but if you do not make the efforts now, what if your mummy's gone one day? will you regret then?

Answer 10

sounds like your mom is a little selfish,you are a single mother of 5 and you work what part of that does she not understand.i don't know how you do it.