I found out my fiance' raped, killed and mutilated fifteen women in Guatemala. He was sentenced to life in prison, but his family is very wealthy and "bought" his freedom. He tells me is very ashamed of his actions and is a new man, and I believe him. Should I marry him? He is very rich. The only thing that makes me nervous is the one day I came home and found a severed female breast in our bedroom, but he told me it was left over from a botched implant surgery at the hospital where he works, and he just took it so he could throw it in the trash, and then forgot about it. That sounds plausible to me. My heart tells me we're meant to be together, and everyone deserves a second chance. Am I being naive?
2006-10-06 04:30:06 · 40 answers · asked by cdrfish15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't sound naive. You sound crazy.
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2006-10-06 04:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm hesitant to respond to your question because it sounds completely unbelievable but sometimes when I tell my own life story it sounds like something that I made up so I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt. But secretly i'm hoping that you're somewhere laughing at me because this is not the kind of situation I'd want for anyone.
I think that you are being a bit naive to think that this man can be trusted. I know you love him, but 15 women is alot and it doesn't sound like he had to do any time or show any remorse or anything, which means he knows he can get away with it. And it also means that the only thing stopping him from doing it again is his own will. Generally serial killers are demented and can not fight their urges, their urges get the better of them every time. They know it's not right to kill but they can't help it. If he changed it would take more then just him deciding to change. I would stay clear of him. And if he's a murderer then I doubt he'd be allow to work in a hospital, there are protocols and severed breast is not something to dispose of in your trash at home. That story sounds completely fake. You need to read up some serial killers and make your own decisions. I could tell you to get out of the right now but you won't unless you decide it make sense. But just in case you're for real, then get out of there now!
2006-10-06 04:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by NutterButter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you are being naive. I studied Criminal Justice when going to school, and still study it when in my free time since my career is not in that department. I believe that when someone is a serial killer that there is something off in their own brain that makes them act on it. Think about, as an example, everyone has had thoughts in their life about killing themselves but there are certain people that can actually do it. Also everyone has had thoughts of hoping that someone else would die, but they cannot be the one that does it. Because the human brain is so complicated, I do not think that we will ever know why someone does what they do when it comes to killing people. Also during the time that he was incarcerated, it gives them more time to think about how they got caught and what they can do differently the next time. As another instance you might want to do research on the BTK killer, he had the family, job and no one ever knew what else he was doing.
2006-10-06 04:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Casey M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being naive. What happens if he snaps 1 day and you become apart of the group he has raped, killed and mutilated. Hello..... You found a severed female breast in your bedroom. WAKE-UP!!! Is he a doctor ??? Your life is worth more than some money. If you care about yourself. At then end of the day you have to live with him know what he is capiable of.
2006-10-06 04:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what every one deserves a second chance but this is his 16th and you are only interested in one of 2 things the money and you are ready to die. look if someone brought home something all the way from somewhere else i would jump to believe them in a heartbeat 2(smile)..I know u are not that nieve,and looks like he has u right where he wants u. in a choke hold . I think u are sceard to leave because u already know so much u think u'll be next . Unless u get off to this just as much as he does. girl wake u befor u go go(missing) what movie did u get this from all the serial killer that have money don't get off that easy (you need a new hobbie)
2006-10-06 04:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very naive woman. Are you serious??? He's playing you for all it's worth. When he owns you, then the mask will come off and you'll see his true colors. Your really in a frightening situation and don't even know it. Please check in to social services for battered women. (I know your not battered) But if you leave this guy (and you need to leave right now) you'll need their help.
The fact that you've already found a severed breast tells you he's already killing again. Hospitals require all human byproduct to be disposed of there as a biohazard. And why would any woman let her breast be cut off unless it's filled with cancer?
Please seek some help, and walk away before you seriously get hurt.
2006-10-06 04:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not serious are you? I hope not, god, yes you are being naive. Money is what makes the world and the people in it evil. Consider him more of a monster because his family has money. He obviously doesnt feel remorse for his actions or else he would show it. Any man who uses his power to intimidate or harm a woman is a tiny little bug that deserves no happiness. But I really hope you arent really in that situation and if you are, good luck and be carefull and trust your gut instinct. And sleep with a weapon near by.
2006-10-06 04:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Candy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's up to your, are you morally ready to take on such a risk? I couldn't do it! What he did was more disgusting that anything in this world. I could never love a man that had hurt that many people. Look deep inside and try to picture yourself with him for the rest of your life. think about when you have children together and your daughter turns 15, how worried will you be about her alone with her father. If you can deal with that, then that's great and I hope that you have a happy ending.
2006-10-06 04:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Amber S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Am I being naive?"
No you are being a liar!
There is %0 chance that anyone "paid" to get out of murdering 15 people in Guatemala. Learn a little more about the places that you plan on lying about in the future, before you decide to make such an idiotic *** of yourself!
2006-10-09 06:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never marry him in ur place... if u want to be happy 4 some moment only then go ahead and marry him... but then remember the rest of ur life is ruined...
He'll continue killing other women... n it's a shame to have such a husband
2006-10-06 04:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO everyone makes mistakes that is what rehabilitaion is all about. If the sex is great money is good and he is up for that Anal you love, go for it..
Word of advice, dont waste toime shopping for Christmas presents too early in the year and do not get too into long running serial shows xx
2006-10-07 05:07:09 · answer #11 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋