then he call me to say someone came ringing his bell w/out calling. he knew it was me. what should i do?
2006-10-06 04:31:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE PROBABLY HAD SOMEONE ELSE IN THERE WITH HIM.
2006-10-06 04:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure you didn't catch him on the hopper? Maybe in the shower? Taking a nap? (just playing devil's advocate) How can you be certain he knew it was you? Are you the only person that would visit him?
OK- there is always the possibility that he was with another woman but I wouldn't jump to any conclusions until there is more evidence than suspicion. There's more than likely a simple explanation so don't get paranoid yet but don't discount anything either.
Good luck and have a great day!!!
2006-10-06 04:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's rude of him... you'd think that being your boyfriend he wouldn't care if you called before or not. Some people are picky about that and don't like people just dropping by, but I think that's a little extreme.
Just ask him why he wouldn't open the door for you. If his only reason is that he doesn't like you stopping by without calling first... then you should call before you go. That is, if you don't mind. If you mind and don't really like his attitude about the situation, you may want to find another boyfriend that is a little more available. He should be happy to see you, not leave you stranded outside.
2006-10-06 04:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by spanish kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's rude to go by someone's home without calling first...even if it is your bf. There could be a number of reasons he didn't answer the door. It might have just been inconvenient for him at the time. Next time, be polite and call first.
2006-10-06 04:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had someone else inside. Why else would he know it was you and be unable to answer the door. Think about it . And can you imagine what he must have told the one inside with him?That you're stalking him and wont leave him alone or something to that effect. Or it could just be that he's into some shady business with drugs or something and has to be hiding from someone. Which one do you truly think is right?
2006-10-06 04:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing....he probably had someone over. Next time he comes to your place without calling don't open the door.
2006-10-06 04:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it again. But call from your car. Tell him you'll be there in half an hour. Then sit there and see if a woman comes out the door. If you think he's cheating do it again and again.
2006-10-06 04:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call before you "show up' the next time.
2006-10-06 04:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by yolkyolk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because he had someone else inside that's why he didn't answer even if you showed up at his house without him knowing so what your his gf and you should be able to come there whenever you want without asking sounds to me like he's hiding something
2006-10-06 04:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not good. think of all the reasons why he would not open his door for you. Then confront him about it. If he knew it was you like you said he did then you have a problem, and it isnt worth your time.
2006-10-06 04:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Srah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy wants the girl to just drop by unless hes sick or its already been stated that thats ok for you to just show up... Next time give him a call
2006-10-06 04:36:34 · answer #11 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋