Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

me if i cant marry her. i have tried to tell her to f;get me. she threatens to commite sucide if i do that. wht can i do?

2006-10-01 04:03:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best way to get a girl you like to get interested in you?

I've liked this girl for a while now, but when I asked her how she felt about me she said and i quote, 'Your my buddy. I like it that way.'

I really like this girl a lot. I've known her most of her life. Anytime she needs advice she comes to me.
When she was having doubts about her last boyfriend, she asked me what she should do.

I told her to dump him and she did.

But don't think I told her to do it because of any stupid reason, they didn't talk for about three weeks straight and plus he barely spoke English.

We talk on a daily basis, and I feel like I'm just wasting my time now.

I'll still hang out with her and do stuff. That won't change but what should I do and what can I do?

Please only serious responses.
I will report you if you write anything stupid.

2006-10-01 04:02:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 04:00:32 · 5 answers · asked by tiamo8943 1 in Friends

Sex is a gift given by GOD so that Adam and Eve can go around hand in hand and so can make creatures,
Definition of Love for Men and Women . Men:- Love attracts, and results in sex. Girls provides sex to get emotions and care out from men.
why does definition of sex chaging now a days. I have some of my friends who are bisexual, they says. a boy turns out on boys when he is not able to get sex from a women and women turns out on women when she is hurt by men or you can say that men are not able to understand the girls feelings...is that so? Did GOD made Mistake?????

2006-10-01 04:00:29 · 18 answers · asked by puchi b 1 in Singles & Dating

Especially women that want to know what such a fine black man sees in a blonde? Sometimes the comments can be rude and crude. How would you handle such a situation?

2006-10-01 03:59:27 · 29 answers · asked by kolacat17 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What happened to the silky, shiny soccer shorts from the past? Now everything is Climalite.. To me, nothing was more comfortable than a pair of Umbros, Nike, Puma etc. made out of nylon. They were great out on the field and wearing around the house... freeballing in them were great.... sorry, not trying to gross anyone out...... but I wonder why the material changesd ... It is probably because of fashion.... lots of non-soccer players wear them too... Also, what is the deal with people wearing soccer clothes that are not even soccer players.... they are making our uniforms fashion statements. I wonder sometimes if little boys and girls..... and teenagers and college age people sometimes get on soccer teams just to say they play soccer and wearing the uniform so they look cute for the boyfriend or girlfriend.... Let me know what you all think.

2006-10-01 03:58:19 · 4 answers · asked by josh_wagner12 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 03:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by talatyaseen 2 in Family

I met this girl at work and one night i saw her out. My friend and her friend were both there. We all went to her friends house about 1am. I kissed and cuddled with her. Then she told me she had a boyfriend. She told me that her boyfriend treats her bad and doesnt know why she is still with him. Ok thats cool. I have been talking(just talking) to her for about 2 months now as a friend and the only thing she talks about is how her boyfriend isn't the one for her and how badly he treats her. She is moving in together with him in January. Her boyfriend lives about 4 hrs away.
If her boyfriend is treating her so badly why is she still with him? Why is she always telling me about it? Do you think I will always be just a friend and our night of kissing and cuddling isn't going anywhere?

2006-10-01 03:56:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my inlaws are creating probs in my married life. my husband is financialy dependent on them due to which they are emotionaly foolinghim .if i talk to my husband he starts fighting with me as they r teaching him against me & my parents .he has plans to go abroad in which they r helping him bt only on this condition that he will not take me with him.When asked my husband says he cant live without me but at the same time he cant leave his parents also.

2006-10-01 03:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by rimps 1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't help it I have a fetish for playing footsie with other guys besides my boyfriend.To me it's an erotic game teasing another guy with my boyfriend there and he has no idea what goes on.I have done it on a few occasions when we go out to eat with friends.I'll slip off my shoe and start playing footsie with another guy.Then I saw this lady who claims she played footsie with strangers at the movies on a messageboard.I did it and found it so dangerous and got me excited.The 3 guys I did it with didn't do anything but sit there I guess they liked it and I want to do it.I don't want sex with them its just the teasing that I can do without my boyfriend not knowing.

2006-10-01 03:56:24 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle C 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in college and have been single for a year. there's no feeling of having someone since my last unsuccesssful relarionship. For a length of time, I've noticed that there were someone coming to me, some usually looked at me but no speak, some moved to sit next to me during a lecture but no speak. Still I'm not a good interpretation. So I thought that those things they did to me really offended me and I felt really uncomfortable of what they did to me. But now I feel like i'm interested in some of them. Lately I approached to some, then my feeling has been changed due to they acted differently. They seemed to me as friends, all the intimate feeling I have to them has been faded away.
I usually acted like a standoffish to me whenever they looked at me or moved close to me but actually i really felt interested in some of them.
What should I do? Going up to talk to them, yep, I tried that a few times but it didn't work.
I'm stucked on this situation, pls any suggestions?

2006-10-01 03:55:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

not a divorce, but an enalment? I need to know how to spell enalment.

2006-10-01 03:55:11 · 7 answers · asked by michael f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

as a girl grows up her parents should try to let go of her cause she will get married soon.. but, my parents are trying to control my life more.. the older i get they try to pull me towards them and try to control everything i do... i can't leave the house to see my friends or just go for a walk... i can't say in my room and lock my door....i can't even talk with my friends on the phone.. what am i to do?? how do i get them to let go of me?.. how do i handle them?? they are making me go crazy..

2006-10-01 03:54:30 · 28 answers · asked by anju 1 in Family

but we want to do it out of town what are some good places to renew your vows wehave been married almost eleven years

2006-10-01 03:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-01 03:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by damusmell22 1 in Friends

i have a teeen aged daughter ,her birthday is coming up , anyway i dont know what to get her for her birthday any ideas help???????????????????????????

2006-10-01 03:52:41 · 16 answers · asked by ***** K K ***** 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 03:51:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 03:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Singles & Dating

If getting married cost as much as a divorce did maybe the divorce rate would drop! It would make you think alittle harder about getting married if it cost $1000.00 to get married. Then again if the divorce cost cost what a marriage cost then the divorce rate would jump cause where i live it cost $25.00 to get married. Just a thought to ponder. What do you think?

2006-10-01 03:51:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-01 03:49:53 · 20 answers · asked by William T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my ex was bein reli horrible and he isnt now. He sed to one of my friends that it wasnt jst me in the relationship who messed up. He said he still cares for me and thinks about me and def doesnt hate me but he just wants to be friends but it will take time but he doesnt want to get back? I really would love him back but what can i do ?

2006-10-01 03:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 03:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to send a letter to someone but don't want them to know where it originated. Does anyone know if this is feasible?

2006-10-01 03:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by luvdatbeard 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 03:47:42 · 17 answers · asked by charlie 1 in Weddings

Being trapped in a bottle for hundreds of years - i feel kinda out of place here, how do i learn the mannerisms and the ettiquettes?

2006-10-01 03:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do mothers and sons have such close relationships?

2006-10-01 03:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by mzhaz 1 in Family

Just asking Girls' opinions !?

2006-10-01 03:45:02 · 19 answers · asked by JessiMC 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated and now divorced for 18months after 8 years together, how do you go about dating again? would love to but it's very scary and to be honest my ex husband and i just kinda ended up togetherso a whole new mine field...

2006-10-01 03:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just took a test on friday and i found out im pregnant but i haven't told my boyfriend. I'm really scared because i promised him i was gonna be safe and i was gonna be okay..because i was on birth control and so he decided not to pull out but because he trusted me. I know i have ruined his trust of me. In the beginning of the relationship- he said if i was i should let him know (his choice would be abortion because we are both too young and have nothing to offer the child) and I agree. However every time i go to tell him- either something is wrong with his family or his friend died...and the relationship has been a bit rocky in the ppast month. im just scared and i don't know what to do.

2006-10-01 03:43:57 · 31 answers · asked by mariapican 2 in Singles & Dating

.My problem is this:
When I was in primary school I fell in love with someone called Skye

But then when it came too high school, he got sent to a private all boy's school far away from me and I got sent to the local comprehensive.

I thought I'd NEVER see him EVER again and despaired.

Around about the same time my Grandmother of whom I was VERY close to died. She practically raised me.

Because of all these things(the death of my Grandma, the loss of Ian ) I began to feel very depressed.

Then I made a TERRIBLE mistake:

Somedays I felt so low I found it almost impossible to think about the future and sometimes couldn't find the will-power to get up in the mornings.I started to refuse to go to school as I felt so low. I'd been bullied VERY VERY badly at the primary school i went to (before I moved to the one Skye was at)which also made me quite nervous of people and scared of school too which made me terrified of High school.

I refused to go to High school on-and-off for the first three years by which time I was REALLY REALLY very behind in my work.

At the end of the third year I then refused to go to school altogether as I couldn't cope any more with my life. I was SEVERELY depressed and wasn't thinking logically. I ended up having 5 measly hours of home tuition per week, for the next two years which should have been spent in school. Unsurprisingly I now failed ALL my GCSEs (apart from getting a ‘C’ In English) I feel so awful! I can’t believe I let this happen.I have now then sat at home doing nothing for the past year....now i am 17 years old!!!!!



However this is my problem:

i am now 17

I want to go to college but the thing is I’ve just found out that the college I want to go to is right next door to the top educational sixth form that Skye’s at. I NEVER in a million years expected anything like this to happen...not ever...i thought I'd never see him again..especially as his private boy's school had a sixth form.

If I go to this college then I will definitely bump into him but the thing is I think I would die of shame. I feel like a complete freak.

he's studying 'A' levels at a top sixth form college. And I .....will have to go on an Entry level course and learn really basic stuff like how to cook, use public transport etc(basically for absolute dim-wits) because of the fact that I have failed all my exams. My problem is that I still really love Ian but

He'll NEVER EVER IN A MILLION BILLION YEARS be interested in me now. He's in a different league to me. He's so clever---and I’m not!



I'll have to go on an ENTRY level course :( but this is killing me. I wish I could be with him more than anything in the world but as soon as he finds out I’m on an Entry level course, he’ll NEVER EVER be interested in me now.

Also it's inevitable that i'll bump into him whilst out and about anyway.So I cannot run away from this problem.(i cannot believe that I never tjought about this years ago....but i just was panicking and not thinking ahead...i never thought of a day 6 years into the future)

If I ignore Skye when i see him then he'll think I'm not interested i him--, (when I am…and it would break my heart to do this) But if I talk to him then he'll NEVER like me anyway…. when he finds out what I've done. He'll think I;m a terrible person for refusing to go to school. because he'll ask about my life and i'll have to explain what I did :(

The thing is (and I really need your help on this) HOW ON EARTH DO I EXAIIN TO HIM ABOUT HOW I REFUSED TO GO TO SCHOOL--AND WORST OF ALL WHY? HE'LL THINK I’M A TERRIBLE I have two options:to ignore him and lose him or to talk to him ….but I’ll lose him anyway once I’ve explained my situation! It’s hopeless!

What should I do about all this? What should I do about him?



Also I really need to ask you: What could/should i have done when I first started high school and got seperated from/lost Skye? How could I have held on to him? please be honest. what things could I have tried to hold on to him? : it's just i loved him so much.

I did try to hold onto him....my dad found Skye's address on the computer and I decided to write to Skye and ask him if he'd go out ith me. I also sent him Valentine's cards ....but I recieved no reply. Why do you think this was? My dad said maybe he wasn't allowed as he was so young (he also went to an all boy's school)....i thought it may have been because he didn't like me. but a few weeks after i sent him a valentine's card I decided to visit my old primary school...and a few days after I visit ...Skye visits the primary school..and smiles at my sister who is a pupil there. I am at this point VERY confused as to whether he likes me or not. I panicked and I was trying so hard to hold on to Skye that i could not get on with my life (and also didn't know how to get on with my life....becase i couldn't bear the horrible truth that I had lost Skye...because i loved him and found it IMPOSSIBLE to let go of him....especiakly as I found out that he liked me back...but probably not to the extent that i liked him) I wrote to him a few times,first asking him out as a friend..then on a date type thing.....but i never recieved any form of reply...also i sent him a Valentine's card every year for my first 2 years in high school. But after that........i just couldn't think what to do anymore...and no-body gave me any advice/told me what to do aout Skye/or said how i could possibly be with him in the future. so i just gave up......and shut it all out of my head...and pretended it wasn't happening...that I wasn't losing Skye.....I lapsed into SERIOUS depression....there were days when i felt so depressed that I couldn't get up in the mornings. I stayed in this state for about 2/3 years (this was when i had the home tuition because I couldn't cope with school/life in general) and I sat my GCSEs...failed them (was still in denail over losing Skye so didn't at the time care much about grades asi didn't want a future without him) then .....now have sat at home for the past 2 years doing nothing as i have still been in denial over losing Skye....and also haven't had any guidance from anyone. But now i am 18 and HAVE to do something with my lfe before i get to old to go to college.



I just need to ask you : what COULD/SHOULD i have done back when i started higj school and got seperated ftom Skye? How could I have held on to him? How should I have handled the situation? What do you think? How could/should i have gone about holding onto him? Or was there NOTHING and i mean NOTHING that i could have done to hold on to him back then ? ...and if so then should I have just let him go:( ? PLEASE be honest with me.How should I have gone about holding on to him? Because what i tried didn't work....it wasn't a good enough plan. But i just wondered if you knew what i COULD have done to hold onto him?

What should I have done about him back then?

2006-10-01 03:43:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships