Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

going through a divorce kinda i have a 14 8yr old the younger one doesnt understand, should i move out or stay with the EX-hubby?

i also dont have a great paying job, because i have 2 watch the kids so therefor i dont have a great deal of money, but when the divorce happpenes i get half, but still thats not truley enough.

2006-10-01 03:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by Marypoppens91 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have known this guy since the beginning of this year and i am in love with him but he doesnt like me
we are just friends.

2006-10-01 03:17:25 · 16 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 03:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend brokeup with me. He wants nothing to do with me relationship wise. We were together almost a year.My jealousy caused too may fights between us. He said he can't take it anymore.He said he loves me but relationship wise we are not a fit. Our fights basically constited of me freaking out over nothing and we had REALLY bad fights. I say I would change and I never did. We must have fought over 20 times. Last time we spoke I begged for another chance he said no way. He was done.He gave me enough chances.He also said to let time pass and he will call me.But for now I have to respect his decision, get it through my head that its over. He said when this blows over he will call me to see how I'm doing. He said he would be a friend, but thats it. I can't bear a minute w/o him. I drive by his house just to see if he's there.How do I stop from being some psycho stalker. I think if i'm not in his face, he will just forget me. I want to prove to him I can change. What do i do????

2006-10-01 03:15:22 · 14 answers · asked by jovy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I didn't even realized that I had it but it was recently pointed out to me and may be ruining my relationship. Please help if you can.

2006-10-01 03:14:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one night when she gets in, romantic, fun etc. She watches this show and complains if I talk during it. I was thinking about cooking for her and massaging her feet during the show and putting a strip of tape on my mouth during the show so I wont disturb her. Good idea, bad idea? Any other women think this would be fun, spontaneous?

2006-10-01 03:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this friend. We are friends and we hang out a lot. classmates, same cliches. i really want the best for her. and this girl whom i trust a lot told me that my friend backstabbed me! tell me what i should do? =(

2006-10-01 03:13:05 · 18 answers · asked by jingz2404 1 in Friends

I've heard that a guy's 1st love will never be their last. :(

2006-10-01 03:12:56 · 15 answers · asked by ravynmin 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 03:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by messa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 03:11:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tend to criticize pople i lov n admire... !

I know...this is opposite of what I should be doing...but i'm kinda helpless at this...

Help Please ! how can i get over this ? its become a habit ...

2006-10-01 03:10:04 · 10 answers · asked by JessiMC 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 03:09:41 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or does every parent think their own child is beautiful?

Just wondering.

2006-10-01 03:09:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-01 03:08:28 · 14 answers · asked by big jimmi 1 in Weddings

ok he gave me this nickname and its based on something i told him ,i told him my grandma said she has a crispy weiner and he laughed alot so he calls me crispy so i started calling him chewy and he said to me if he was chewy id have to bite it so he wanted me to call him crunchy ,and we had to do this project together and i made up this sentence that said this hot dog is crispy but i like crunchy ones the most and this was before i started calling him crunchy and friday he said to me "you wrote that sentence right?so that means you like my weiner!"and then he ran in front of me and ran up the stairs,and he wrote my nickname on the bored along with my full name and an arrow pointing to me!then in athletics he started racing me on the track even though hes not supposed to even talk to me and when i came out of the locker room he was walking by and he looked at me and walked in front of me and we raced to the bus,(we ride different buses) nd the day before my friend asked him out for me

Additional Details

10 hours ago
and he said he likes me as a friend but lately hes been flirting alot and everyone says we are a good couple,and i caught him and his friends looking at me at lunch,and he was looking at me in the lunch line ,but he flirts ith this other girl,whats his problem dose he like me?i dont get it help explain!

2006-10-01 03:07:41 · 8 answers · asked by Trista 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok he gave me this nickname and its based on something i told him ,i told him my grandma said she has a crispy weiner and he laughed alot so he calls me crispy so i started calling him chewy and he said to me if he was chewy id have to bite it so he wanted me to call him crunchy ,and we had to do this project together and i made up this sentence that said this hot dog is crispy but i like crunchy ones the most and this was before i started calling him crunchy and friday he said to me "you wrote that sentence right?so that means you like my weiner!"and then he ran in front of me and ran up the stairs,and he wrote my nickname on the bored along with my full name and an arrow pointing to me!then in athletics he started racing me on the track even though hes not supposed to even talk to me and when i came out of the locker room he was walking by and he looked at me and walked in front of me and we raced to the bus,(we ride different buses) nd the day before my friend asked him out for me

Additional Details

10 hours ago
and he said he likes me as a friend but lately hes been flirting alot and everyone says we are a good couple,and i caught him and his friends looking at me at lunch,and he was looking at me in the lunch line ,but he flirts ith this other girl,whats his problem dose he like me?i dont get it help explain!

2006-10-01 03:06:56 · 2 answers · asked by Trista 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 03:06:52 · 19 answers · asked by sweet girl 4 in Friends

2006-10-01 03:03:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i break up with someone i act more clingy and stalky than ever - how can i stop doing this and can i ever get them back?
what can you do when you wnat to call them all the time still?

2006-10-01 03:02:18 · 11 answers · asked by danielle_in_luv 1 in Singles & Dating

when i observe english people when they are not involved in any conversation (e.g. on tube), most of them look uptight and uninterested in other human beings.

And when they start a conversation they change completely and pretend they enjoy the convesation and care about a person they speak to (it looks pathetic if you are from another culture and perceive their real attitude, as they may think it is invisible or accept this mutual bullshiting).

this extreem change shows what is real and what is an overly friendly attempt to overcome the english antisocial nature. ..... being english, are you aware of this or do you think it is normal to bullshit other people ?

2006-10-01 03:01:34 · 9 answers · asked by WPIZDEMANTO2 W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on my net friend.But the truth is that I faked to him about almost everything-- my age, name, place.He's in love with that fake girl.But I love him truly now.

I hid my identity for security reasons.(girls here should understand).I did'nt know I would fall in love with him.

He has even given a green signal to our relationship.All he wants is a date with me.He showed his photo to me.But I did'nt show mine.I am afraid that my looks won't satisfy him.

He wants to meet me and call me.I would love that and I want to break him the truth.But I am afraid to lose him.What if he did'nt accept the reak me?

I want some comforting words and some advice.
No harsh words please! I am already feeling miserable.

2006-10-01 03:00:54 · 16 answers · asked by monalisa 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my girlfriend coz i found out that she cheated on me, TWICE!. Then after a month i started dating someone new and everything was fine. My big brother didnt like my new girlfrend and convinced me to get back with my Ex and give her a second chance, i was stupid enough to agree.

The thing is i have realised that i shoudnt have got back with my Ex coz i feel she could cheat on me again and i want to go back to the other girl, but do you think she will take me back after i left her to get back with my Ex?

2006-10-01 03:00:24 · 30 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

HE'S ENJOYING HIMSELF WHILE IM LEFT WITH THE KIDS

2006-10-01 02:56:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard a lot of men complains ( count me as one) about continous nagging of their partners. They practically nags and yells at anything from dishes to simple task.

My twin daughter once told me about their School teacher joking that his mom talks a lot like a furious radio, I just told them that they are are far better, because their mom is a Public Loudspeaker. Even children had been affected by such continous nagging. They are even ashamed of their playmates and neighbors, telling them how a nuisance their mom was.yelling even at night and not to mention at dawn.

Are women that confrontational in dealing with day to day life? Can they not control their mouth that it is a distant meter ahead of their thoughts.
This annoys men especially those whose works involves a lot of concentration and focus.

2006-10-01 02:55:41 · 19 answers · asked by rasgloria 1 in Family

When my boyfriend and I are having sex, we like to cut each other with razor blades. The sight of the other bleeding kinda turns us on. We enjoy licking the blood of each other. Is this weird?

This isn't some joke question either. I just want to get other people's opinions about it.

2006-10-01 02:54:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i wouldn't wish to lose a friendship.

2006-10-01 02:54:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you had both circumcised and uncircumcised partners?

Which do you prefer?

Why?

How did intercourse feel different?

would/did u circumcise your boys?

2006-10-01 02:52:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So he told me that if we get back together he might cheat on me. He just told me this so he wouldn't have to hurt me in the future. he hasn't seen this girl in a year and new her longer and had these triggered feelings when he saw her...I'm trying to figure out if they are real or is he confused. Beacuse I love him so much and I don't think this girl could love him as much as me. i don't know the girl but somehow I want him so badly! What should i do?

2006-10-01 02:51:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have also forgiven the girl (who was my best friend at the time) who's actions led to the messy break up?? and also that she continued to stay in touch with him

2006-10-01 02:51:11 · 7 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

would like to hear from people that have actually done it.

2006-10-01 02:50:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce