I broke up with my girlfriend coz i found out that she cheated on me, TWICE!. Then after a month i started dating someone new and everything was fine. My big brother didnt like my new girlfrend and convinced me to get back with my Ex and give her a second chance, i was stupid enough to agree.
The thing is i have realised that i shoudnt have got back with my Ex coz i feel she could cheat on me again and i want to go back to the other girl, but do you think she will take me back after i left her to get back with my Ex?
2006-10-01 03:00:24 · 30 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave them both,find someone better do not follow your brothers advice this time he may be jealous
2006-10-01 03:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!! You LET someone actually talk you into something that you didn't want to do? So your Bro didn't 'like' your new girl, big fcuking deal! He's not the one dating these girls, YOU are. The ONLY reason that he wanted you & the ex together is because he 'liked' her. My-oh-my, isn't that just fcuking sweet. And he thought that he was doing you a favor. Makes me want to fcuking puke!
If you want your old flame back, just explain things to her. "Hey, my brother doesn't like you, and at a vernerable moment, he talked me into going back with the ex. I KNOW that was a stupid thing to do, and it's a stupid excuse but that's what happened."
And ask her forgiveness. You'll be lucky if she takes you back. If she does, then fine, if not, the hold your chin up and start looking elsewhere. Lots of single girls out there dude.
And STOP letting your Bro interfere in your love life. Let him express his opinion, but that doesn't mean that you have to follow his advice.
2006-10-01 03:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, but you can always talk to her and find out, AFTER you break up with the girl you don't want to be with anyway. Perhaps you should take a break from both and figure out what you really want instead of going back and forth. Some time alone doesn't hurt and can do some good.
2006-10-01 03:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this second girl isn't stupid enough to take you back, do you really think you deserve her now?! You've messed her about and gone back with a scumbag and expect to come running back like you're something special!
I'd steer clear of both girls, one's a cheater and the other you dumped so a clean break all round sounds best.
Oh, and don't listen to your brother, his advice is absurd!
2006-10-01 03:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..difficult question. I would suggest you break up with her. Even if the girl you want to be with doesn't take you back, its better than being in a relationship you don't trust. As for teh girl you want to be with I think the best thing to do would be to be honest. Explain everything to her truthfully..and you never know. Good luck!
2006-10-01 03:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by David B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in one hell of a mix-up here, mate. You should never have listened to your brother. Why did you? It is your personal choice, not his.
If your new GF knows you broke off with her because of your ex, getting back to her will be a tough ask. But worth a try, nevertheless.
2006-10-01 03:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new girl might take you back, but she might not.
Either way you should dump the girl that cheated on you and tell your brother to get a life of his own.
She cheated twice, that was her two chances.
2006-10-01 03:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen u confess that u did a mistake & repnt for that, one must give u a chance. If u truely love her & vice versa, I am sure she would take u back. After all u are human n not god so its but obvious that u were misguided & confused. But make sure u dont do this mistake again.
2006-10-01 03:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by fantasyland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you then she'll take you back. Just be honest, tell her you made a mistake and that when you weren't with her you realised how much you missed her. You may have to eat a bit of humble pie, but if she likes you as much as you like her, she'll be willing to give it another go
2006-10-01 03:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by THE BULB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) dump the one that cheats
2) accept the fact you have probably blown it with the new girl, she isn't going to want to take you back after you dumped her for your ex
3) tell your brother if he likes your ex so much, maybe he should date her? either way butt out of your love life.
2006-10-01 05:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you should tell your brother { & everyone else } to keep their noses out of your affairs, you could try talking to the other girl & tell her how stupid you have been , tell her it will not happen again & make sure you make her happy if she takes you back , good luck .
2006-10-01 03:07:06 · answer #11 · answered by Weed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋