When my boyfriend and I are having sex, we like to cut each other with razor blades. The sight of the other bleeding kinda turns us on. We enjoy licking the blood of each other. Is this weird?
This isn't some joke question either. I just want to get other people's opinions about it.
2006-10-01 02:54:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We are both in our mid-twenties....We are not teens....Just to clear things up....
2006-10-01 03:16:02 · update #1
Everyone likes different things if anyone says thats sick or weird that would be cause it's not their thing, people should enjoy their sex lives and how they do it is up to them! Just be careful where you cut each other!
2006-10-01 02:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Here we go..... I am a "cutter" and after years of therapy know that the reason Cutting is what experts call an unhealthy coping mechanism. This means that the people who do it have not developed healthy ways of dealing with strong emotions, intense pressure, or upsetting relationship problems.
There are lots of good, healthy ways to cope with difficulties, such as talking problems over with parents, other adults, or friends; putting problems in perspective; and getting plenty of exercise. But people who cut haven't developed these skills. When emotions don't get expressed in a healthy way, tension can build up - sometimes to a point where it seems almost unbearable. Cutting may be an attempt to relieve that extreme tension. It's a confused way of feeling in control. That's one of the reasons why younger teens are more likely to cut.
The urge to cut might be triggered by strong feelings the person can't express - such as anger, hurt, shame, frustration, or depression. AND SEX since it can be an extreme feeling. As for licking blood... Not only is this unhealthy but dangerous as well. PLEASE PLEASE Talk with a trusted adult or someone at your school.
2006-10-01 10:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by nana_viki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out other S/M sites. Be very careful with this for all the obvious reasons but most importantly think about this... Is this truly a way to show your love for each other? Love should not be hurtful.
2006-10-01 09:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it weird.. but don't be ashamed.
Although i think the razor blades is a bit... odd... That can scar... it's almost as bad as teens cutting themselves..
2006-10-01 09:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by x_Super_Social_Superstar_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird to me but if ya both consenting adults and enjoy it then is up to you just make sure the blades are very clean dont no infections lol
2006-10-01 09:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by jonny w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please seek professional help...and I'm not joking. Your probably very young and if you continue to do this some horrible things could end up happening to both of you. Besides being gross and disgusting it's unhealthy for both of you.
2006-10-01 10:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ughhhh. this is horrible. Both of you have no idea about the germs that may be harming you. There are endless diseases out there watch out you dont wanna end up helpless
2006-10-01 09:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it's a little weirt--and gross and unhealthy.
Any diseases he has you now have from licking his blood.
But whatever turns your crank is really not my business, and I don't think you should care so much what other people think.
2006-10-01 09:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, thats dangerous.
lol, i hope this is a joke.
and goths are pretty much the scariest things ever.
please, just go to abercrombie or something.
2006-10-01 09:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, weird. And dangerous.
2006-10-01 09:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋