HE'S ENJOYING HIMSELF WHILE IM LEFT WITH THE KIDS
2006-10-01 02:56:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he has a job. This is not even complicated. The world does not revolve around your anniversery. Maybe he should quit his job and lay around the house beckoning to your every need.
Get a grip!!
2006-10-01 03:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Houston Golf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is on a business trip, can he really have helped it? My sister works for a job that requires her to attend seminars and take business trips and there is no way to change that. If they tell her to go on a specific weekend, she has to do it. She couldn't make my bridal shower because of it.
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JTB is right also, you don't need to have fun despite the kids, have fun WITH the kids. Your kids can be an enjoyable time. I'm not sure what type of person you are but find something that you guys can all do together as mom and children to celebrate the day that brought you and daddy together. Celebrate your time!!! It's up to you how you perceive things. You can look at it like:
We can have a real party when he gets home (How about a surprise party from you and the kids), so what if you celebrate a couple days late.
OR
You can mope all day long thinking about how horrible it is that you guys aren't together on this day.
I think that you should discuss this with him. Let him know that you would at least like a small gesture on his part to show that he is thinking of you on this day. A phone call or flowers delivered with a nice note.
2006-10-01 03:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you quite sure that he's enjoying himself...anniversaries dont mean much to the standard employer,im afraid...my ex husband frequently had to work in China for a few weeks at a time and he missed occasions etc all the time. Is he on a working work trip or a fun day at Caesars Palace in Vegas followed by a room visit by the Vegas showgirls??? chances are he is working really hard and probably wishes he could be with you but if not and its a work 'jolly' that he didnt have to attend then you are a mug...no offense but the next time that happens i suggest you pack the kids off to grannys house and have a cracking night out with your mates...that way youre not bored and he'll probably get all insecure because youre not sitting in miserable but out there enjoying yourself (maybe,shock horror even talking to other men) and then he wont forget to take you out on the next special occasion...it'll work, trust me ;0)
2006-10-01 05:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really enjoying himself, or is it work?????????
IS he the onlu one working??? It might be a necessary thing for him to do.....I am sure if he had a choice, he would be at home with you and the children....
Don't get upset and mad.... Get a sitter, get dressed up, call a girlfriend and go out to dinner ......
If you feel trapped with the kids, maybe you should have a date night when he gets backs home..... Help him plan an extra special celebration evening out.....
Don't fill yourself with anger and hurt at something that might be beyond his control.....
Go take a bubble bath, dim the lights and relax......
Every night can be like an anniversary night......
Be positive and support the realtionship.... begin planning for his return!!!!!!!!!
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2006-10-01 03:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of each attempt could be made to spend the day at the same time no stress. p.c.. a picnic and take it to the park. be in a public place, yet be on my own, you recognize? that is too undesirable which you have no longer even hit a 12 months, yet i elect you to renowned that is no longer too overdue. the 1st 2 years of a marriage are the toughest. you're getting used to a various guy or woman, their behavior (sleeping & different behavior), their character could no longer mesh with yours each and all of the time. yet basically 9 a million/2 months of marriage isn't even time to be sure if it works or no longer. you may desire to get decrease back into that homestead and make it artwork. highway bumps could make you hit your head on the roof, even regardless of the undeniable fact that it may knock some experience into you besides.
2016-12-26 06:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear that sounds rather sad !!! Cheer up at least you have kids. Some women can't have any so look on the bright side eh!!!
Happy anniversary by the way !!!
Do something nice with the kids instead of feeling sad!!!!
2006-10-01 03:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, put the kids to bed a early as possible and crack open a bottle of wine! He's a Muppet, Happy Anniversary from me xx
2006-10-01 03:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by shiloh6662001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the biggest problem with women: why do you always think a man's job is just fun and joy and thus you are not part of it? Or why should you think he didn't want to be with you and kids?
Happy Anniversary!
2006-10-01 03:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you don't say is, is it for work or just a works outing. if its work then he is hardly having fun, and if it isn't then its called bad timing. why don't you make the most of it and take the kids out and have some fun. Celebrate your anniversary with your hubby when he returns.
2006-10-01 03:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometime that's the way things happen. If you're not happy - have a chat, but if it was unavoidable - there's not much to be done about it.
p.s. works trips may sounds great and fun, but often as not are souless and boring.
2006-10-01 02:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Felidae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋