So he told me that if we get back together he might cheat on me. He just told me this so he wouldn't have to hurt me in the future. he hasn't seen this girl in a year and new her longer and had these triggered feelings when he saw her...I'm trying to figure out if they are real or is he confused. Beacuse I love him so much and I don't think this girl could love him as much as me. i don't know the girl but somehow I want him so badly! What should i do?
2006-10-01 02:51:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think u can give it some time, if u are confidant that she can not love him as much as u do, there u can give it a try. Infact he also might be loving u too, its just a infatuation kainda feeling with the other girl. He might be just confused. Give him a chance and love him unconditionally, i am sure he will understand and come bak to u. Its very easy to break a relationship n takes a lifetime to make one so at a later stage if u feel he is not worth of your love, u can decide to move on. all the best hun.
2006-10-01 03:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by fantasyland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel so lowly about yourself that you are willing to be with someone who may cheat on you and has feelings for someone else?
A friend of mine asked me if she should try to steal a guy from another woman. I told her "If he can be stolen by you, then he can be stolen from you". This is a similar situation. If you can get this guy despite his feelings for another woman, chances are he will not be faithful. And the big bell going off indicting that is that HE TOLD YOU HE WILL CHEAT!!!
Get some confidence in yourself, you are most definitely worth a lot more then anything he will ever have to offer you.
2006-10-01 09:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read over your note, the answer is their. You are selling your self cheap, why does he have to have all of the choices. You do not want this guy, he wants you all, don't that tell you, he will hurt you and everyone that comes in contact with him. so move on, find you a friend, who you can get to know, and take it slow, so you can find out all their is to know about him. Let him stay your ex. go out and have some fun, too much baggage with him!
2006-10-01 10:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are millions of men out there and enough of them are better then this guy. You can find a guy who will not cheat on you and will love you.
Obviously this guy does not care wnough about you if he can go back with another girl or if even seeing this other girl brings up old feelings.
Get a new guy and drop the old one.
2006-10-01 09:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by David B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,you cannot force someone to be love you and be with you,its the fact,the sooner you accept it the better for you.and its not your worry to think about how much she can love him,your worry should be that your b/f is not in love with you anymore and hes been honets enough,so be a little wise and leave him alone,he has move on with life and it'll be better if you too do the same,it'll help you not to be hurt,cos he will definately go back to this new girl sooner or later,so dont take any chances,its not worth!!good luck!!
2006-10-01 10:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes before. The best answer to give anyboy for this is. LOVE YOU. If this guy doesnt realize what he had its not your fault. Believe me he is doing you a favor. Move on and there is somebody out there just for you. You just have to know how to love yourself first. If you dont know how to do that then you cant truly love anyone els.
2006-10-01 09:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by MrsJClair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this moment what you want to hear is " go back to your b/f, you have him anyway....because you love him badly" but the reality is he will cheat on you with that girl or any other that put in front on him because you already accpeted that condition if you get back together....so I think you should tell him that you prefer to be away from him (not showing the pain that causes) maybe he will realize that he doesnt want to loose you.....good luck
2006-10-01 09:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is telling u the truth. if he does get back wit you he might just cheat on u which in any case u wont like. i agree that you like him too much to loose him but think about it. love is a 2 way street, if he has already got a gf then i think you should slowly and surely dis-associate wit him.think abt it. ok, ta tc.
2006-10-01 09:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he just warned you before he do wrong things to you. He’s honest with his feelings. He hurt you before and he doesn’t want to do it anymore. Just wait and see if their relationship works. If she doesn’t give the love you’ve given to him, he will justify that later on. And don’t blame yourself if he gets hurt because it’s his choice. Just wait for the love destined for you. Who knows maybe that guy too if he realizes after all.
2006-10-01 10:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by herzae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another better guy,move on. There is hell alot to be done than thinking about the past
2006-10-01 09:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋