What is the best way to get a girl you like to get interested in you?
I've liked this girl for a while now, but when I asked her how she felt about me she said and i quote, 'Your my buddy. I like it that way.'
I really like this girl a lot. I've known her most of her life. Anytime she needs advice she comes to me.
When she was having doubts about her last boyfriend, she asked me what she should do.
I told her to dump him and she did.
But don't think I told her to do it because of any stupid reason, they didn't talk for about three weeks straight and plus he barely spoke English.
We talk on a daily basis, and I feel like I'm just wasting my time now.
I'll still hang out with her and do stuff. That won't change but what should I do and what can I do?
Please only serious responses.
I will report you if you write anything stupid.
2006-10-01 04:02:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do want honest answers.
What I don't want is stupid answers such as, 'pull your dick out' and stupid stuff like that.
All the immature people like to say that type of stuff.
So by all means be Honest.
2006-10-01 04:25:09 · update #1
mayb she is just not seeing u as how u're seeing her.. try to get into her perspective.. or get her into ur perspective.. either way would work fine... u can still have hope.. it's not wrong.. but never compare her to anything that u like.. coz as far as friendship is concerned, whatever u do, it must be sincere.. this may not mean anything much right now.. but take some time out.. get a break.. then read this through again.. all the best!
2006-10-01 04:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by I need a vacation! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, bud, I think you should move on. There is no way you can make a girl like you if she doesn't want to. Maybe in time, she might realize something different, but for now, it's void. I'd start investing your time into something different. But I'm sure your friendship with her does mean a lot, so keep that line of communication open. But when it comes to your free time, be sure you are finding someone more available then she is to spend your time with.
2006-10-01 11:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with you threatening to report us for our honest opions , is kind of up setting in itself. makes ya only want to say hey , good luck with your problems dude. the last time i brushed someone off like this , by saying your my buddy...the sparks were just not there. it is a hurtful situation to be in , when someone doesn't like you the way you like them. but if she is that important to you , isn't her friendship worth the wait? maybe she will come around someday. but sitting through the rejection can be kinda hard on you i am sure.
2006-10-01 11:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will have to except that the only type of relationship
you will have with this girl is FRIENDShip. My best friend is a guy
and i know he would do anything for me,as i would for him.
2006-10-01 11:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋