Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

now what to do i am confused

2006-10-01 05:53:37 · 24 answers · asked by albergo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a boy i like and his girlfriend flirts with other people. Hes on the verg of breaking it off with her. I thinks he likes me and I know I like him. We've talked on the phone before, and he tells my cuzins things about me. So i kinda figure he likes me. Should I make a move or should I let him.

2006-10-01 05:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by avabrow15 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so devastated....

2006-10-01 05:52:16 · 19 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Singles & Dating

we have hanged out and stuff but i told her that i have crush on her but she doesn't like me that way should i do ?

2006-10-01 05:51:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we marry , all take vows in these VOWS it says "TILL DEATH DO WE PART, when you go before a court you are asked to raise your right hand & swear to tell the truth, you can be jailed for lieing , but then after taking vows ,which is to swear to God, a judge will grant divorce & this after knowing the facts that , this couple has given their vows to God that they would stay together TILL DEATH.How can a court grant a divorce & it be legal ,IT GOES AGAINST THE VOWS THAT WERE MADE TO GOD.So are you saying marriage shouldn't be taken serious ?Nor should OUR VOWS to God ?Nor our promise to our spouses ?So if our spouse &God can not trust us to keep our promises,HOW CAN OUR CHILDREN EXPERT ANYTHING TRUTHFUL FROM US ?To rainbow,I know some may think it means the death of the love in the marriage BUT THE BIBLE TEACHES AS LONG AS YOU HAVE A SPOUSE THAT LIVES YOU ARE BOUND TO THAT SPOUSE ,BUT & IF THEY DIE,YOU ARE FREE TO MARRY. Remarriage after divorce is living in adultery.It's a hard fact

2006-10-01 05:50:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-01 05:50:55 · 14 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Singles & Dating

any tips

2006-10-01 05:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by genesisrocks426 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, he's 21, I'm 15. I see him alot but not everyday. He jokes around all the time with me, which alot of time seems like flirting to me. He smiles at me all the time, and just lately started putting his hands on my shoulders and stuff. You think it's just kindness, or he like me?

2006-10-01 05:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay. There is this girl that i want to ask to homecoming.

Problem #1: She is not allowed to date. Is there a way I can ask her dad or gaurdian if it would be okay if i took her.

Problem #2: She is a pretty good friend of my ex. who I broke up with 3 weeks ago

Problem #3: She is a really good friend and I don't want to ruin that friendship.

Problem #4: Her twin sister is also a really good friend.

What should I do. Should I ask her and If she says she can't because she is not allowed to date. Or should i ask her parent/gaurdian if I could take her to homecoming.

2006-10-01 05:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by Qb10 2 in Singles & Dating

The gift should b a rare gift. d 1 least expected from a friend . Should like it.

2006-10-01 05:49:52 · 7 answers · asked by Gwen 1 in Friends

Its a damn vicious circle all right. Please someone help me out.
Its not that I dont plan.. nor its that I am not diligent.
but it gets really awfully painful to find out that you are given into sloth.
You have the desire to do everything and have a lot ahead of you to do.. but.. butt.. then there you have it.
I just have to procrastinate that just a little more.. just a litte little more..
Please help me get out of this rut !! I might add that I am desperate

2006-10-01 05:49:44 · 8 answers · asked by EvilSlim 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine told me I'm selfish and I use people. I never saw myself as someone who is like that. Is he right?

2006-10-01 05:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by sammyd 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl in my life who i use to date off and on. ive known her some time now, and am very attracted to her. she doesnt say she wants to be friends, as a matter of fact shes probably just as attracted to me as i am her. but ever since school started back up she hasnt come around, she told me she likes my company but never asks me to do anything anymore. I try to call her but she never picks up and never returns my calls. now ive known this girl for a long time, since the begining we we're always all over each other secretivly wanting the other. do i let fate work it out or do i let go the only person i felt i needed?

2006-10-01 05:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is that the orgasm?

2006-10-01 05:47:45 · 2 answers · asked by sweetie k 3 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i had a serious talk with my bf..telling him the flaws i dont like about him.. and how he should change..like the way hes rude..he should be nicer..and how he shouldnt take things for granted..and this morning he broke up wiht me and said..I DONT ACCEPT HIM for who he is.. and now he doesnt want to talk/be with me anymore.. is he hardheaded because he does have a bad attitude and not willing to change.. i know you shouldnt try to change someone but sometimes its neccsary for their own good will.. but yeah im guessing me wants me to come crawling back to him..but i always do..what should i do

2006-10-01 05:47:28 · 25 answers · asked by girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 05:46:40 · 12 answers · asked by sammyd 1 in Singles & Dating

I make an effort to get along with my a potential girlfriends pets be it cat, dog, iguanna you name it . Anybody else male or female place value on pet /person compatibilty?

2006-10-01 05:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 05:45:57 · 18 answers · asked by brian b 1 in Family

man i really want to get laid
some info would be nice

2006-10-01 05:45:33 · 3 answers · asked by gamil789 1 in Singles & Dating

I am curious if anyone has ever experienced anger to the point of just feeling like you are out of control. I do. I don't know what is wrong with me. I do have a lot of trouble in relationships and have felt like I never have had a man to really love me. I have been married 2 times and cheated on and physically abused in one marriage pretty bad. I don't trust anyone and am always feeling like people are against me. My current relationship is with a man that puts me down and calls me fat and just adds misery to my life. I can't find a man who has ever done anything besides pull me down. My anger comes from probably all of this over my past. I get so bent out of shape with small things. I seem to go from 0 to 100 in two seconds flat. I say things to hurt people just to get a reaction from them. I tried to get away from my current bf and I started seeing a guy that had been seperated from his x for about 3 months. Now they are back seeing one another. Will I ever find someone ot love?

2006-10-01 05:43:58 · 6 answers · asked by princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

All my life, i've been trying hard to get her attention, aproval or a slight gesture of love, after all she seems to love everyone else why not me? im her daughter. She has never told me she hates me, since i was little all i heard was "im not saying i dont love you, im just saying i dont like you" or "im bad and mean to you cuz you have more guts than yor brother", or things like "why dont you just go away", nothing that i do is enough for her, everything about me seems to disgust her. I'm a hard working woman, and a single proud parent, i've had certain money problems and she has helped me, but thats as close as i get to a gesture of kindness from her, she has always been like that with me, im 29, and now i realize that all of my insecurities are based on the fact that she has always rejected me. How can i just get her out of my system? i dont want to hate her, but i also dont want to love her, i think there is a limit, and she has done a lot of psycologycal damage already

2006-10-01 05:43:35 · 8 answers · asked by MaG 1 in Family

hates life
trusts me and one other person
doesnt trust guys
doesnt care where shes going
but im not sure i take her litterally

2006-10-01 05:43:24 · 6 answers · asked by yakkity yak 1 in Friends

her girlfriend deployed to iraq. she was the main reason for our breakup. every since her girlfriend left my wife has called me everyday and has tried to get back with me. her girlfriend divorced her husband 1 year ago and i think this influenced her to get seperated from me 8 months ago. she seems like a changed person all of a sudden since shes been gone. her friend and her new boyfriend rent from me and my wife. i think that she has came to her senses since her friend is gone. what do you think?

2006-10-01 05:43:19 · 20 answers · asked by kn74t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this girl at work for a year and I fell very much in love with her. We broke up cause her parents hated me. I moved on and am currently seeing someone, I also love her. And don't want that to change. I just want to get over the other one. I can't quit my job. Im a over the road truck driver and she works in the office. I only see her once or twice a week. I find my self wanting to see her or talk to her, I do try to stair clear becase of my new girlfriend. I just want to get over my old one. Getting back with her is not an option nor is quiting my job. Any ideas other then time, cause we split up almost 2 years ago.

2006-10-01 05:42:26 · 5 answers · asked by american18wheelin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my friends have a small gang..well ot's a good gang..but we want to name it and we need your help to give us ideas!

2006-10-01 05:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by .sevenchances. 1 in Friends

2006-10-01 05:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We both (myself and my wife), commonly watching sex CD’s once in a week, or twice in a week. We both are very much interested in watching it. But my friends are warning me to, don’t do that. Is there any chance to persist problems in family life?

2006-10-01 05:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by Gopalakrishnan 3 in Family

ok here is whats going on ...i am a single mom of four teenaged boys ,well one just turned 18 and is graduating.whom i am very proud of i might add .
well i have been divorced 10 1/2 yrs i have custody well now he is trying to get them from me .
i will tell you what happened when i told my ex i wanted a divorce i also told him i am keeping the boys and i am going to go for support well i was young and dumb he turned around and told me he would give up his rights and never see his kids well i didnt want that kids need there father in there lives well he took them every other weekend no problems for 9 yrs we remained friends of course for the kids sake.well he got married a second time to a nice women got along with her she is great .well he left her after they had a son together and she was 5 months pregnant for another women well since this new gf come into our lives its been hell .she is trying to control everyone and telling myself and his soon to be 2 ex wife how to raise our children ,,she controls my ex and tells him what to say to both of us ...well anyway back to why i am scared ok april 25 th 2006 my ex came to the house to pick up our 16 yr old son he wanted to stay over his house the other boys stayed with me ..well our other son whom is gonna be 13 was coming down the street well my ex started on him ,see he sprained his ankle a couple of weeks before this his p.t. told him to start using it so he was well his father was like well it looks like your better your out jumping around and acting like a retard your acting as if you never hurt urself well my son got upset walked away from his dad came over to me to tell me about what his dad said all i know is next thing he has him over aganst a garage i couldnt see what was going on i assumed he was yelling at him from walking away till he went to leave my son was holding his throat that is when my other sons had told me he had him by the throat i said why didnt you say something i took my son into the house he was holding his throat and crying he couldnt breathe well my bf took him to the sink trying to splash cold water on his face to calm him down when my son coughed there was some blood in his spit he wanted me to have his dad arrested i couldnt do it cause i knew one day he would want to see his dad again so i told my son come on we are going to the doctors they took xrays he sprained our sons neck and gave him a contusion,well after that happened the two little ones didnt want togo over there so i wasnt gonna force them i told them when you are ready pick up the phone and call him i would never stop you from seein your father i did tell the gf what had happened and she said fathers do that to there children i said not to mine she said well he does it to my son to keep him in line i said well you can then ,but he is to never touch my sons again well he stopped my support of 50 aweek to nothin so i took him to domestics for support now he wants to sue me for custody.i am a full time mom ,i take them to all there appointments (dentist&doctors).i take care of them when there sick.i was with my son all the times he had surgery .i was here for my boys since birth ,here for them 24/7 they are my life.nothing comes before them . he wasnt always in there lives he has been in alot of different relationships were those women we more important then his boys ,well not me i have been with the same man for 10 yrs i lived on my own 9 of those yrs and raised my sons.still raising them doing the best i can .i go to school meetings i do everything i can to get the kids the help they need in school.i cant lose them they are my life. my world.everyone tells me not to worry about it i am a great mom and everyone knows it.my sister said tina it will come out that you have been there for your boys always. that you take great care of them ...see when i would call my ex and tell him all the help i get for my boys he tells me there is nothing wrong with them they need a foot up there **** .he would be like give them two me for a couple of weeks i ll straighten them out im like no thats ok .see he was abusive when i was married to him i know what that meant and i am still afraid of him till this day

2006-10-01 05:41:36 · 4 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres a girl talking behind my back. She's "my friend" as she says. She always says she wants to hang out with me. But I hear she said I'm "weird, a little mean, and secretive." What do I do to tell her to stop talking about me? She's telling all my other friends not to hang out with me and to not talk to me. But she always tells me about how she's dying to hang out. I don't want to hang out with her, but I won't tell her that because that would just start trouble between her family and mine. Another girl has been saying it to. How do I tell them to shut up and stop talking behind my back? Thanks for all your help.

2006-10-01 05:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by Another Obsessed Fan ♥ES 2 in Friends

my husband spitting and throwing beer on me i have very bad arthris and i cant work please tell me something else i can do we have been married 29 yrs of pure hell i know i shopuld have got out years ago but i chose not to. im a fool i know and i just dont want to leave and if i make him leave then i will be throed out i have nothing but i do have a house ful of furniture and i would take it with me thanks for all the help on the first question i just dont know what to so anymore but cry i live in asmall town and i dont want this town knowing my business i am just lost

2006-10-01 05:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by sassygal 1 in Marriage & Divorce