I dated this girl at work for a year and I fell very much in love with her. We broke up cause her parents hated me. I moved on and am currently seeing someone, I also love her. And don't want that to change. I just want to get over the other one. I can't quit my job. Im a over the road truck driver and she works in the office. I only see her once or twice a week. I find my self wanting to see her or talk to her, I do try to stair clear becase of my new girlfriend. I just want to get over my old one. Getting back with her is not an option nor is quiting my job. Any ideas other then time, cause we split up almost 2 years ago.
2006-10-01 05:42:26 · 5 answers · asked by american18wheelin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say there was more to it than just her parents not liking you. Most people don't care what their parents think only about what they think. Her parents would have come around. I think that was an excuse and an easy way for her to dump you. Your better off with someone that isn't going to play you for a fool. Good Luck with your new life and leave the past in the past.
When you do talk to her keep it business or mention something about your new girlfriend to her. Bring it into reality that you have moved on with someone else.
2006-10-01 05:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your perspective. Stop thinking about "what might have been, if only..." and be glad that you have a girl who wants to be with you. If you can't do that, you ought to at least respect your girl enough to break things off with her, at least temporarily, until you can clear your thoughts and figure out why this is bothering you so much. She deserves to be front and center. Don't encourage the ex-girlfriend to be overly friendly in any way. Don't stop and talk with her when you see her. A simple "hello" is plenty. Just block the rest out and move on.... Or, you can let yourself go crazy by obsessing so much about what you can't have and forgetting about what you do have, which could maybe be much sweeter if you allow it.
2006-10-01 05:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think ur still in love with ur ex but its probably just some residual feelings of still caring for her as u can't be in love with 2 girls at the same time unless u know which one u love more. if getting back with her is not an option then ignore her as much as u can and distract urself when ur at work with other things and whenever u see ur ex, think about ur current girlfriend and how she makes u happy and how much u love her if u love her very much. 2 years is more than enough time to get over someone and i think u may need to try some counselling if u still can't get over her as u can't quit ur job and u need help to get over her.
2006-10-01 05:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by olive_sugar21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still pining after 2 years, you have issues!! I'm surprised your new girl is still with you. Dump the old emotional baggage & move on. As for not being able to change jobs...there are thousands of trucking co.'s looking for drivers every day, you DO have a choice. Make it!
2006-10-01 05:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love takes time to get over. my ex B/F left 14 months ago and I won't get attached to anyone still. we stayed friends he would call me and everytime say" love you "before he hung up. it is hard seeing the one you love and not be with them.you can still love someone and be 'in love' with someone else. just try to enjoy the time with your new G/F and know she loves you back.
2006-10-01 05:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋