Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

i just got a car 1 month ago , i realized i was not going to be able to afford it but of couse i cannot take it back. i have tried to sell it but have had no luck i tried selling it back to dealership but they wanted to give me 21k and i bought it for 34k . my other option now its to return it to the bank that financed it. i have perfect credit this will be the only bad thing on it. will my credit be ruined, i do hhev 2 other vehicles i am paying for perfect and my house , ijust made a mistake. what would you do?? i hve gone thru a depression over this , i dont what to hurt my credit but i dont what to hurt my health either, any advice?

2006-10-01 06:11:17 · 10 answers · asked by juanitaspn 1 in Family

i really care about her,but she lies to me about seeing other men,,i cant let go,,help

2006-10-01 06:10:56 · 8 answers · asked by staggerlee1944 2 in Singles & Dating

She said her husband has been cheating on her and that she wants to work it out with him (which I think she should), but I feel so bad for her. Do I tell her that I came across her question and figured out it was her or do I let her maintain her privacy (since if she really wanted me to know she would have told me)?

2006-10-01 06:10:07 · 32 answers · asked by Mande 2 in Friends

2006-10-01 06:09:09 · 14 answers · asked by titto 1 in Friends

The reason I ask this is because I talk on the net with a girl for 2 months then we talked on the phone she complained that she said i sounded older then I am. 1. I am 18 and I'm very well off money wise! 2. I lost my parents 2 Yrs ago so I had to grow up faster then most, I deal with Lawyers and other people who are rich! It would be stupid for me to talk abunch of slang when I'm making a deal worth $1,000,000.00!! I feel like it would be stupid for me to destroy everything my Dad left me just so I can sound Cool!! Please tell me what U think!

2006-10-01 06:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

A good friend of mine who I'm sure liked me, used to text me a lot and call every so often has suddenly gone very quiet. I miss his texts etc. but I'm not sure if I should get in touch because I'm worried that he has gone off me. We were supposed to meet up last weekend but I had to pull out of it even that I didn't want to and I apologised. Since he's gone rather... weird. What shall I do?
I think he knows that I'm rather keen on him...

2006-10-01 06:08:01 · 16 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Singles & Dating

i always have to be cool. i have to talk and act in a different way when im around people. anybody. even my family. in my adolesence i was always sad and beat myself up becuase i never had cool stuff like the other kids. so i was always depressed and alyways trying my hardest to fit in. i would never be myself. i think i hate myself and yesterday i wanted to commit suicide. i am 24 years old now and i think this is sad for my to be even typing this letter becuase once again it isnt "cool" for a 24 year old to be on yahoo answeres talking to other younger kids about his problems, thus i get more depressed. i need help. In my ideal like i would be a skater spelled with an 8, an ganster a rapper, somebody cool, i just cant live my normal life, and it is killing me literally. P.S. My family is from Africa

2006-10-01 06:08:01 · 12 answers · asked by SeattleHead 1 in Friends

NOTE that i am not looking for date. NOT! Just asking what question you woud like to ask me!

2006-10-01 06:06:24 · 7 answers · asked by Gao 1 in Friends

And why?
Mine is that I am very accepting, honest, and never phony.

2006-10-01 06:05:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend keeps telling me she wants to kill herself. Shes 18 and this is her first yr in college. I think shes having trouble adjusting and has alot going on in her life. She told me last night she took 5 pills of something but it just made her sick. what can i say to her to make her not want to kill herself. i want to call her family but they cahnged their phone number i dont know what to do help!

2006-10-01 06:05:05 · 18 answers · asked by incubabe 6 in Friends

I have ben dating my bf for 9 months now. Something happened the other night that I am confused about. I have my own house and he has an apartment. The other night we were lying in bed and he made a comment about the fact that I have been in my place for almost a year noe and that I could sell it now or rent it out. I bacisally live with him already, but fo go home on the rare occcasion if he is at work or out somewhere. At the moment my younger brother lives at my place with our 2 family pets. My brother has said that he would rent the place fom me if i wanted in the past. I was thinking that my bf was making the comment cause he wants me to move in with him but im not sure. My BF also made a comment a little while ago that he would have to do something til in old and grey. I wasn't sure what he ment by that either. I thought that he was either testing me or that he was hinting to me that he seesus together in the long run and is thinking about marriage.

2006-10-01 06:04:47 · 4 answers · asked by starbright 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband and i are having a really hard to right now..
ok his daughter moved here from D.C. she is 24 with a(n) 9 year old and a 5 year old
she is living with us so i let her use my car to find a job well that was 5 months ago now on a rainy day she runs my car thru a puddle and it shuts the computer system down after her friends tries to boost the negative to the positive
well now i have been without a car for 2 months its in the shop but they are having a hard time replacing the system
so far they estimated my 2004 chevy impala at 789.00 and she is now working making 312.00 a week does not contribute any thing toward bills food hygiene items nothing her 9 year old pisses to bed every day my water bill has went from 56. monthly to 167.00 she does not disipline her for it so she thinks its ok
i ask her to by her pampers but she stated they are to expensive
and went out las week an purchased a 189.00 metro p c camera phone daddy says nothing should i just move

2006-10-01 06:04:08 · 24 answers · asked by carla28al 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We never got serious or anything but we have fooled around a few times and I think I really like her. She offered me a really good deal to move in with her and I have an escape plan already made but I'm scared I may get hurt when I see her bringing home other guys but at the same time I don't want to miss out on this great deal? Will she fall in love with me? Will I get past my feelings for her? This is a very tough question but I'm interested in hearing some opinuins.

2006-10-01 06:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by Joshua C 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and I have know idea what I should do. I want it to be great and something that will suprise him. I need some ideas so please help!

2006-10-01 06:02:57 · 10 answers · asked by Jess07~* 1 in Singles & Dating

Me n my man been dating for almost a year... and we have had many arguments because he is soooo jealous,controlling and insecure.
Yesterday we went to the cinema and b4 the film started i went to the toilet,when i came back he was very moody and distant with me,so i asked him half way through the movie what was wrong with him, he then went MAD and started accusing me of flirting with some guys, he told me he followed me to the toilet and he saw me talking and flirting with some other guys!! WTF, i swore i never did that, i didnt even talk to anyone!! He then went crazy and threatened to take my bag and run of with it if i didnt admit to him the "Truth"... i know i didnt do anything wrong and he was so adament that he saw me!!
He made me cry so much and scream! He took cellphones and im sick and tired of his accusations, i know he doesnt trust me, what the hell is wrong with him, we both love each other and we are together everyday! what am i supose 2 do?

2006-10-01 06:02:55 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 06:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by ms 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 06:01:54 · 14 answers · asked by themainevent0814 2 in Singles & Dating

well i got a gf in usa and i want to move in with her

2006-10-01 06:01:52 · 6 answers · asked by hellboy1985666 1 in Family

We have been faithful to each other(that is to say, we never cheated on each other-- she never cheated on me & I never cheated on her)! But last night,I was talking to her on my cell phone!!! Here's the thing: her & I have had .... how many fights???? So I dumped her & I am now/currently single!!!! Even though I am almost 23 years old, will I find her(that special someone)????Please help me!

Additional Information : When I dumped her last night on my cell phone, believe it or not, I wasn't even crying(like I was the night she dumped me over the phone)!!! As a matter of fact, neither was she(my current ex-girlfriend)crying!!!!!!

2006-10-01 06:01:18 · 7 answers · asked by michael_kleman2003 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 06:01:06 · 15 answers · asked by prisice 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It makes it sooo hard for us girls to tell if you like us or if you're just playing around or being friendly!

2006-10-01 05:59:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what i mean by this is i have a bf that is 3 hours away, and just wondering maybe the guys could answer this one or some chicks, what would be a hot message to send so he gets all turned on and cant wait to see me

2006-10-01 05:59:22 · 5 answers · asked by t l 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 05:58:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 05:57:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK so theres this guy named nick and hes my boyfriend. I have known him for 8 years and we have been dating for 2 months. There is also another boy named Sean who i have known for 3 years and i have had the bigest crush on him for a really long time, and know when i have a boyfriend he starts to like me. Theres still more ok the last guy is some kid named jake i only meet him like 2 weeks ago but hesd really cute and he really likes me he got really jelous when i left with sean and seans friend. but through all of this nicks away on vacation. All 3 of the boys like me and i like all of them but im dating nick right now but i dont know what to do can someone please help me

xoxo
Jeanine

2006-10-01 05:57:37 · 9 answers · asked by xxsexy425xx 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some ideas on how to cure this....

2006-10-01 05:57:20 · 10 answers · asked by Renee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 05:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

alright can anyone give me tips on when like the first week of a relationship with a girl?Then like 2 weeks, 3weeks,and so on

2006-10-01 05:56:30 · 8 answers · asked by themainevent0814 2 in Singles & Dating

i have really liked this boy forever. and he doesn't like to date but i want him to ask me how to show him that i really like him. i tell him that i love him all the time. but i need something more

2006-10-01 05:54:31 · 6 answers · asked by P. D 1 in Singles & Dating

i have really liked this boy forever. and he doesn't like to date but i want him to ask me how to show him that i really like him. i tell him that i love him all the time. but i need something more

2006-10-01 05:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by P. D 1 in Singles & Dating