We never got serious or anything but we have fooled around a few times and I think I really like her. She offered me a really good deal to move in with her and I have an escape plan already made but I'm scared I may get hurt when I see her bringing home other guys but at the same time I don't want to miss out on this great deal? Will she fall in love with me? Will I get past my feelings for her? This is a very tough question but I'm interested in hearing some opinuins.
2006-10-01 06:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by Joshua C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well do you want to move in with her? Really no one else can tell you if you should or not.... but if you really care about the girl i think you should jump on your opportunity. If she brings in other guys you bring in other girls and if she gets jealous then go for her and if not then just stick with someone else....good luck!!!
2006-10-01 06:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by little_angel63384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Quit being so lazy. You havent even looked around yet and because a gal, with ****, likes you and offers...you will take it on? Come ON. Stick your wang back into the jockstraps and THINK about why you are wanting to move out from wherever you are at.
Freedom, self-governing, fear, rent. Unless you are wanting to marry this chick and its an experiment in such.....you have no business moving in with someone who will take you on as a pre-marital partner.
You may not think we do (females) but we DO and hope you get too comfortable and inlove to go elsewhere. Take it from a female that knows....NO female invites a man to live with them if they dont see themselves happily married and with children with that guy. It just doesnt happen that way. We dont like disappointment. AND we dont take on guys that we know will be doing other ladies....we think they love us but are too afraid to SAY it...yeah right.
She's not offering you a holiday home...she is offering you her life. If you dont want that...dont go there. Pick up your lazy butt and get your own place....with guy flatmates that dont want a piece of your ***.
The gal in question will feel more for you if you stand on your own two feet, especially if you stay as connected to her as you are now. Dont live with anyone unless you are married or thinking of being married to them because its false advertising.
2006-10-01 13:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I didnt read the part after your question because I heard that most relationships turn out really bad when two people start living together before they know for SURE that they can trust each other more than anything. But it is your choice so you do whatever you feel. Because I do not want to mess up anything you have going on. Good luck!!!!!!!
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2006-10-01 13:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by anna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how does she view you? as a friend? if that's the case, you'll just get hurt. every time she brings a guy home it'll be a slap in the face. Tell her how you feel see what happens.
2006-10-01 13:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by when's my next vacation??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds doomed from the start. She is fooling around with other guys and you have feelings for her so it is just going to be a painful mistake. Don't do it.
2006-10-01 13:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there is more to it than meets the eye.......try it and see.
If it turns out to be the bes thing you have ever done you will be
patting yourself on the back.....if it goes the other way...move!
2006-10-01 13:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do--I can forsee that someone, meaning you, will get hurt in the end.
2006-10-01 13:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont turture yourself you know its never gonna happen get on with your life
2006-10-01 13:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by poison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a try, if it dont work out, leave
2006-10-01 13:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋