We have been faithful to each other(that is to say, we never cheated on each other-- she never cheated on me & I never cheated on her)! But last night,I was talking to her on my cell phone!!! Here's the thing: her & I have had .... how many fights???? So I dumped her & I am now/currently single!!!! Even though I am almost 23 years old, will I find her(that special someone)????Please help me!
Additional Information : When I dumped her last night on my cell phone, believe it or not, I wasn't even crying(like I was the night she dumped me over the phone)!!! As a matter of fact, neither was she(my current ex-girlfriend)crying!!!!!!
2006-10-01 06:01:18 · 7 answers · asked by michael_kleman2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will find the right one, keep looking and she will come to you. Dont worry huN!
2006-10-01 06:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah... The fights... You may not believe it, but sometimes, when the relationship is at the beginning, those pesky fights might do a lot more good than harm in the long run... Is something about smoothing the edges of each other, creating and strengthen the bonds between the two... But, there are some limits: when one turns against the other, hitting where it hurts the most, then it is over...
I think the two of you come to this, unfortunately. Your relationship is about to end, if it hasn't done it yet. I'm guessing it's not only the number of fights, but also the childishness of them -- it means that each other's egos had become more important than the relationship itself. This is the breaking point.
In addition to this, the fact that neither of you had any emotional response in your discussion over the phone tells me that both of you know it is over. Maybe it even ended earlier, and it was just a matter of who will be the first to say it (maybe she was the first to say it, but you asked for a second try)...
To answer your final question (which is also the ultimate question about love), I'll say only this: I'll soon be 28 of age and I'm still looking for that special one; I will not stop looking until I would've found her, or die. This is what I want and this is what I'm willing to do...
But perhaps you'll be luckier that me. Who knows?... I wish you only the best of luck !
2006-10-01 06:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Restless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never break up with someone on the phone- i get that she did it first - but that doesn't mean you should do that to. Obviously the relationship wasn't good for both of you and that she wasn't the one for you but you two shared great times and you should take that down for experience.
Your still young and you will meet lots of new and special girls. The right one will come you should just be patient.
Good luck
2006-10-01 06:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by rissienr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice from a chick(: He the two needs you or her. And whilst he has his head at recent, oh you will understand. He cant be telling you stuff like "i admire you" and take it back. And fairly frankly he in all likelihood did not mean it. Im sorry if that offends you. yet whilst he rather did he could be with you, and not her. So i think of the superb element of do good now could be to end speaking to this guy. he's in simple terms gonna play with you, and you're actually not any toy. the reason I enable you realize to end speaking to him is because of the fact in case you attempt being "friends" you will in simple terms advance emotions back. So attempt to discover somebody new. solid success lady(: -ValerieVagina :]
2016-10-15 09:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will find the right girl,and when you do,there will be arguments but if you want things to work then you both will have to be willing to work through it and not dump each other each time you disagree
2006-10-01 06:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you both came to a mutual decision to end things thats why you both were not crying... dont worry, your young! you will find some one special!
2006-10-01 06:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, duh, it's no surprise to either one of you - who wants to fight all the time?
So, time to move - of course you'll find someone else.
Have fun!
2006-10-01 06:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋