i really care about her,but she lies to me about seeing other men,,i cant let go,,help
2006-10-01 06:10:56 · 8 answers · asked by staggerlee1944 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. you are both married. you shouldnt be together.
2. ask yourself why you cant let go.
3. a cheat will always be a cheat. if she's cheating on her husband (as you are your wife) she will have no problem cheating on you with other men.
4. can you REALLY trust someone that lies?
5. like dear abby/ann landers always said, are you better off with her/him or without?
6. you are both married. figure out whats not working in your marriage and fix that FIRST before you try to fix your affair.
7. sometimes a woman in a bad marriage is looking for acceptance and love. someone to appreciate her. make her feel important. the quickest way to do that is sex. its a quick fix for a bigger issue.
good luck to you. my advice is you drop her. you WILL get over her. fix your marriage or divorce. stop wasting your time in relationships that are not working.
2006-10-01 06:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by deathwishpussy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the whole relationship is a lie and i know you are not actually trying to make her an honest person boo look in the mirror. don't expect someone else to do something that u are doing it doesn't make any sense.................she lies to u because for 1 she don;t respect u..if u can cheat on your whife why can't she (this lady) cheat on u. and the 1st rule of cheating never let ur feelings get involved
2006-10-01 06:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sin you should not be seeing a married women...and even worse still you are also married, are you nuts!...and why are you complaining about her seeing other men you are married for goodness sake...obviously she has no respect for herself or her husband, and definitely not you either.
2006-10-01 06:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The irony of this situation is making my day! What goes around comes around! You are both cheating on your spouses and now she is cheating on you. You get what you deserve in this life. You deserve to have someone cheat on you so you can see how your spouse feels.
2006-10-01 06:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be really messed as well as indescribably selfish. how can you do that to your wife as well as to you? in my opinion you should terminate this affair because it sounds like it going nowhere. if you have any decency left maybe you should think how your wife is feeling and not just yourself.
2006-10-01 06:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy.....here we go another two dogs in heat story!
Hope your wife catches on and de-nuts ya in your sleep!
2006-10-01 06:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you married you shouldn't be seeing anyone else anyway.
2006-10-01 06:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the Jerry springer show.
2006-10-01 07:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by EL GANGSTA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋