A good friend of mine who I'm sure liked me, used to text me a lot and call every so often has suddenly gone very quiet. I miss his texts etc. but I'm not sure if I should get in touch because I'm worried that he has gone off me. We were supposed to meet up last weekend but I had to pull out of it even that I didn't want to and I apologised. Since he's gone rather... weird. What shall I do?
I think he knows that I'm rather keen on him...
2006-10-01 06:08:01 · 16 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well what shall I text then. Feeling c*ap, can't come up with any ideas. Thanks everyone x
2006-10-01 06:16:43 · update #1
Text and ask him if he's ok and offer another night out to make up for the one you had to let him down on. On the night out (maybe a quiet drink, just you two) what's bothering him might come out. Or you might have a good laugh and get everything back to normal! Good luck!
2006-10-01 06:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you and although you apologised is feeling a bit let down and maybe is doubting you feel the same way. Call or text him invite him out again and let him now how you feel about him. He probably needs you to make the first move as in unsure!
2006-10-01 06:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way you can put yourself out your missery is to pick the phone up and give him a call,never know he could be ill or out of town and you are over working your mind without even knowing the real fact's honey put your mind at rest by calling himup then texting him.
my hubby don't even know i texted him and he don't even give a toss about text's.
so pick the phone up never know you could hear her in the back ground honey just pick the phone and call him.
and then when you know he is not for real move on and try and be happy.good luck.
2006-10-01 06:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if everything is o.k between you b/c you just get the feeling things aren't the same. I would call him now or text him just b/c it would annoy me if i didn't know what was wrong, you may feel better after you've spoken to him. I hope this helps and you will feel better soon! x
2006-10-01 06:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just looking forward to last weekend so much that it was a bit of a blow to him when you cancelled, just text him again and tell him you miss him, and if he still doesn't answer well you can at least say you tried !.
2006-10-01 06:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Richard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, invite him to the cinema
He can only say no. Then you would have
your answer one way or the other.
Dont just sit around wondering!!
2006-10-01 06:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be outsraight and ring him he probably feels a bit put out that you cancelled the last meeting but i am sure he would like to hear from you
2006-10-01 06:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by honey s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get intouch. for me getting knocked back or turned down is better than than thinking well should i or shouldnt i. atleast ya know the score then. theres probably no reason to it anyway so get him texted NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 06:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by the faceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him call him if he is a good guy he will still b there for u
2006-10-01 06:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by eddie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big hug and kiss coming your way
2006-10-01 07:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋