I have ben dating my bf for 9 months now. Something happened the other night that I am confused about. I have my own house and he has an apartment. The other night we were lying in bed and he made a comment about the fact that I have been in my place for almost a year noe and that I could sell it now or rent it out. I bacisally live with him already, but fo go home on the rare occcasion if he is at work or out somewhere. At the moment my younger brother lives at my place with our 2 family pets. My brother has said that he would rent the place fom me if i wanted in the past. I was thinking that my bf was making the comment cause he wants me to move in with him but im not sure. My BF also made a comment a little while ago that he would have to do something til in old and grey. I wasn't sure what he ment by that either. I thought that he was either testing me or that he was hinting to me that he seesus together in the long run and is thinking about marriage.
2006-10-01 06:04:47 · 4 answers · asked by starbright 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Another thing that I found a little wierd was that he went with me to my brother's wedding a few weeks ago and I heard from a few people that he wrote something in my brother's guest book (they were giving each person a page to write something in it) and I am not sure what it was. My brother said that I could see it next time i am at his place, and that he hadn't read it either. He also got my dad to take 2 really good pictures of the 2 of us, and one was the type that I have seen in engagement pictures. I also do know that he talked to my dad's gf outside for a little bit, and I think that he talked to my dad as well. I am so confused.
2006-10-01 06:09:35 · update #1
Relax, and enjoy the journey! It definitely sounds as if something is in the works concerning your future, with him. In due time, you'll learn what it is! Then, celebrate! Have fun....it's a special time in your life!
2006-10-01 06:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask him to be clear about his intentions.
Moving in together is a big decision and you need to handle this in a matue way.
2006-10-01 13:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cant talk to each other now about your feelings...you are doomed!
Maybe he is planning a suprise wedding for ya!
2006-10-01 13:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by puffy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not your house and let the apt. go better financies.
2006-10-01 13:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋