Theres a girl talking behind my back. She's "my friend" as she says. She always says she wants to hang out with me. But I hear she said I'm "weird, a little mean, and secretive." What do I do to tell her to stop talking about me? She's telling all my other friends not to hang out with me and to not talk to me. But she always tells me about how she's dying to hang out. I don't want to hang out with her, but I won't tell her that because that would just start trouble between her family and mine. Another girl has been saying it to. How do I tell them to shut up and stop talking behind my back? Thanks for all your help.
2006-10-01 05:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by Another Obsessed Fan ♥ES 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The family has already started a few things a little while back. The girl lies. For example, my cousin knocked down a picture frame on accident and broke it. She told him not to worry, she'll explain it to her mom. He left $5 on there to pay for it, since he had to leave. She TOOK the $5 and said he did it on purpose. That started crap. I can almost guarentte that the family will start crap with mine..
2006-10-01 05:57:51 · update #1
Girls are crazy huh? First of all I would not necessarily believe the one girls that told you the other girl is saying this stuff. Seriously, why would someone make something like that up, but they do. So go straight to her (the one accused) and go "I'm sure this isn't true but I wanted to come straight to you first...." Don't reveal your source because that just creates more drama.
Tell her she can like you or she can not like you and that's okay either way but what's not okay is her talking crap behind your back. Tell her! She will respect you for being so mature and having integrity
and
...if she was talking behind your back she'll stop!
Good luck sweetie :)
2006-10-01 05:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all your other "friends" should not believe her if they know you. Second of all she is probably jealous of you, and talks behind your back because she is not confident so bashes on other people to hide her hideous attitude. Whatever mean things she says about you is what she really is and not you. Why would your family get into a conflict if the girl started it. I re-assure you that,that won't happen, unless the family is immature like the girl talking behind your back.
2006-10-01 05:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by pixelpinkprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know how you feel that has happened to me just tell her you know she is talking about you behind your back and you dont want to hang out with her anymore.................it works for me and you will be much better off that way and you will feel better you did
2006-10-01 05:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish it were possible to have a true friend of the opposite sex.
But it isn't unfortunately.
2006-10-01 05:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw the familys and just straight up tell her
if that was me i would pop her in the face and would not care if i got grounded or suspended
2006-10-01 07:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by zach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if your friend is talkin behind your back and telling them to not talk to you then they are not your friends. Find new friends who will understand! ok
2006-10-01 05:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Element 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if they said that. It could just be a rumor.
2006-10-01 05:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋