now what to do i am confused
2006-10-01 05:53:37 · 24 answers · asked by albergo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as she hasn't cheated on you while you have been together, I wouldn't worry about it. If she is continuing to cheat on you while you are married, drop her. She is putting you at risk for disease and you are not able to trust her.
2006-10-01 05:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife seems to want what everyone else has! I guess possession is 9/10ths of the law, but she is yours. Tell her that if she continues this behavior, you will inform all of the sisters that she has had relationships with their husbands. I am sure she will either stop, or they will stop her!
It may be rough for a while, but when the sisters realize what has been going on, if they love their men, it will be stopped by them. If they don't love their men, look for alot of divorces!
If she doesn't stop, maybe you should be thinking of this option also! You married her for better or worse, it can't get much worse that family relationships with the family. She has crossed the line, she promised you also, for better or worse ! Has she kept her end of the deal??Why should you!!!
Try talking first, if that doesn't work, try walking! There is a woman out there who will love you enough to take her wedding vows seriously enough to keep her loving at home with her man - that is you!
A rolling stone gathers no moss, but who wants a stone in the rose garden that you could be yours!
2006-10-01 06:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by babeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a chance to have a affair with a beautiful women, Would you have missed the chance? Just meditate on this matter and you must get the anwser to your question? The real problem lies in your self which is empty, lonely. Which you have filled with things which are unsecured like your wife. Simply hear the audio discources of http://oshoworld.com and i am sure you will get peace and understanding.
2006-10-01 10:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by HITS_ON_TARGET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a long time ago and she didn't cheat on you and everything is okay in your marriage, I myself think it's best to let it go. It wouldn't particularly be your business to tattle. Trusting her not to be deceitful with you is an issue though, especially if she deceived her own sister. That's something to think about. However, if she has cheated on you with her sister's husband, my opinion is that you should dump her. She knows when she's making a mistake and choosing to do so. No one should have to go through the process of trying to rebuild trust that was selfishly destroyed.
2006-10-01 06:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything detrimental to your relationship and marriage please list the reason why do you believe this is so?
What has led you to this belief? Then seek solid proof for each of those reasons. If not 100% then cross it off....continue down the list until you have a 100% if not drop the whole thing and try become a loving trusting husband to her. Good luck.
2006-10-01 06:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Raja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had the relationship before marrying you and you knew about it, don't let it eat you up. You may ruining a good thing by being suspicous for nothing and you'll get ulcers. However if this is current, confront them and if she doees not change, walk. even th holy book says a man shall not divorce his wife EXCEPT for adultery.
2006-10-01 06:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tansy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should speak frankly with her and talk it through and therein will be the outcome whichever way it happens. It's no use staying confused. Unless you do not want to leave her then stay quiet and carry on as you are.
2006-10-01 18:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Blackjack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife likes to keep it in the family. u really wanna be married to a family F U C K E R? you have some decisions to make grab your balls be a man and decide. if y'all' have kids together get a paternity test done. don't let her near your friends she'll do them 2.
2006-10-01 06:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lady B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you can really pick them. How about going on the Jerry Springer show?
2006-10-01 06:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the dis-loyal bi#$%. My wife cheated on me and i tried to forgive and forget but i never could. got divorced, got a nice girl, got a promotion, and now my ex is crying to me she wants me. too bad. life can be good to. hang in thru the bad times.
good luck
2006-10-01 05:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋