Okay, he's 21, I'm 15. I see him alot but not everyday. He jokes around all the time with me, which alot of time seems like flirting to me. He smiles at me all the time, and just lately started putting his hands on my shoulders and stuff. You think it's just kindness, or he like me?
2006-10-01 05:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 22:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... i think it's not odd if he really likes you considering that he's 6 years senior to you... age is not that important... he may have considered other factors in you so... do no lose your confidence just becuz your so younger! ;)... AND the touches on the shoulder i think do not show anything... and also the jokes but if you fell they are matters of flirting so you got the message yourself dear ;)... Also remember to look straight into his eyes when ou think he seems to be flirting... there's no better way to see the truth than looking into somone's eyes!... it really works...try it! ;)
2006-10-01 13:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by *Shiny*** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're 21 and he's 15, it doesn't matter if he likes you, because if he likes you and you do anything with him then you're breaking the law. Just stay friends and wait another 3 years.
2006-10-01 12:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he's a flirt. 21 is kinda old for a 15 year old...
2006-10-01 12:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay well hes 21 iam pretty sure he knows you are young, niave, and attractive, this guy just wants to get in your pants and is pathetic because he cant get with someone his own age, what a pedophile
2006-10-01 13:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by incubabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people who date people who are way younger than they are in your case are usually *** predators better get out of it fast or ull be in big trouble both at home and with the law
2006-10-01 15:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by jocey g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi likes you for sure...go for him!!! It is just about kindness when he just smileys,but when he starts touching you then it is more then that...
good luck
Kiss
2006-10-01 12:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by donatella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think hes just messing around. I could be wrong.
2006-10-01 12:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Arianna 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋