theres a girl in my life who i use to date off and on. ive known her some time now, and am very attracted to her. she doesnt say she wants to be friends, as a matter of fact shes probably just as attracted to me as i am her. but ever since school started back up she hasnt come around, she told me she likes my company but never asks me to do anything anymore. I try to call her but she never picks up and never returns my calls. now ive known this girl for a long time, since the begining we we're always all over each other secretivly wanting the other. do i let fate work it out or do i let go the only person i felt i needed?
2006-10-01 05:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok i dont go to school, im 22 i work for a living.
2006-10-01 05:54:42 · update #1
Don't give up on her. She might just want you to prove how much you need her. Be patient and kind if she feels the same way about you as you do her she will come back.
2006-10-01 05:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fate. This girl is avoiding you right now. Be seen with others. Either she comes around or she doesn't. Having a secretive relationship is bad on many levels.
2006-10-01 12:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Teacher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let life take it's course. We all change. Maybe she has changed before you have. You'll have many more firends in life, if she's a true friend, she'll come around again. If not, then it wasn't ment to be.
2006-10-01 12:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in her court. Move on. If she still likes you, wait on her to make a move. Stop calling and try to stop thinking about her. Better yet, meet somebody else.
2006-10-01 12:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by black mamba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i deff. think you should let fate work. becuz if it's fate she'll come back to u. especially since all you've been through. don't let go that easily. i kno u been waiting. but if u really need her. dont let her go. but also dont nag her. if she truly never comes around then u can let go. but think about it, u didnt let go. she did.
2006-10-01 12:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by BlAcKhEaRt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's grown to need more respect,and was afraid of how close the two of you became.
Maybe she feels like ,how in the world could like her now.
Maybe she didn't like herself when she acted that way.
Maybe she thinks that's all you want.
2006-10-01 12:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just lying to you. Don't believe anything she says. Find some other girl at your school.
2006-10-01 12:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Qb10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd just leave her alone. if she wants to talk to you she will call...she had her chance. she's obviously not a nice girl or even your friend if she can't even answer when you call. that isn't what a friend is all about!
2006-10-01 12:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that there's another guy in her life, & she feels she would be cheating on him if she kept making contact with you.
2006-10-01 12:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see her at school? If so, talk to her. Aask if you have done something to offend her.
2006-10-01 12:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by redsox3770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋