Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

In many cultures, polygamy is normal. How do these women cope with one man and not be jealous of each other or in a constant state of hurt.. I have read a lot about it with the arrest of the Mormon guy recently. The Nigerian singer Fela married 27 on the same day. I could never live like this in my marriage but many do.........how?

2006-09-23 21:45:01 · 14 answers · asked by kolacat17 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 21:43:14 · 9 answers · asked by sammy 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 23 years old and have been engaged for over 2 years. I just recently gave my fiancée an ultimatum. I told him that he better marry me soon or I'm gone. I'm starting to feel like he doesn't really care if we are married or not (he's been married before). I don't want to be engaged for ten years and I don't want to be getting married when I'm in my 30's either. Was I wrong for this? I'm so torn on this one! Please help!!

2006-09-23 21:40:57 · 21 answers · asked by debbiethornberry007 2 in Weddings

Coz' it hard for me to believe in it?
Why is it possible, then? How can anyone let go so easily and have the heart to fall in love again?

2006-09-23 21:39:28 · 17 answers · asked by joy_chia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 21:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by Wondering 2 in Weddings

my father left so hes not here. im an only child....if u want to know more instant messege me at yahoo messenger my screen name is outrageousguy36

2006-09-23 21:38:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

shes 7 years older and a sweetheart.told her how i felt.

2006-09-23 21:37:01 · 12 answers · asked by simple man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 21:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by HILDA Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 21:33:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 21:31:40 · 15 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Friends

2006-09-23 21:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by whatever_dude™ 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you prefer to dress up in for your first date and also tell me that what would you prefer your love to dress up in.
tell me frankly yet decently.

2006-09-23 21:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im an only child....

2006-09-23 21:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

last month i lost ANOTHER brother the first about 19 years ago he was 19 i was 7 this brother was 29 i'm 26 he has 3 children a girl and twins 1 boy 1 girl. the first no kids.
my husband and i were trying to start our family but i find that i'm too upset to do anything plus i'm worried about my mother.

2006-09-23 21:25:46 · 10 answers · asked by bc_ca_princess 2 in Family

everytime when i'm with my bf, my brain tends to freeze and dont know what to talk to him about.. ne idea?

he says the things i talk bout are boring.. it makes him sleepy...
he say that i am selfish, and that i have trust issue..
when he tries to kiss me.. i get scare and move away. ( thats just my reflect )
how can i cure that..

how can i entertain him... so he wont be bored..

2006-09-23 21:25:01 · 20 answers · asked by Sw33ty S 2 in Singles & Dating

I personally can accept it provided I know that he does not have a change of heart.
But, he says leaving me has nothing to do with it. They are both separate issues. How can one draw a line between these so clearly. Anyone out there can accept these?

2006-09-23 21:22:34 · 12 answers · asked by joy_chia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i have a daughter, been together for four years and we are night and day now. we don't talk anymore, spend much time together, he never hardly tells me i love u. i feel so lonely and desperate for help. what can i do to make things right?

2006-09-23 21:22:23 · 11 answers · asked by kelley h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would girls be offended if a guy got a hard on while making out?

2006-09-23 21:21:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 21:20:38 · 29 answers · asked by whatever_dude™ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 21:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi all. i wouldn't want to hurt her but to be a platonic friend indeed. i am worry that she may be too close to me and i wouldn't wish to be dominated by anyone unless she is the special someone for me. tks in advance.

2006-09-23 21:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sex with your life partner for whatever reason maybe your just feeling like your depressed and you don't want sex anymore in your life? I feel this way now and i am 50.

2006-09-23 21:16:57 · 13 answers · asked by ohio_angell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you (or someone you know) have a story about how you found your significant other? Maybe you gathered your courage and pulled a bold move to get close to this person? How did it happen? Was it successful or not? Please share! Just looking for some inpiration. Hehe.

2006-09-23 21:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by Dot 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 21:14:03 · 10 answers · asked by jerk 1 in Friends

2006-09-23 21:12:45 · 7 answers · asked by whatever_dude™ 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it's just plain wrong.

2006-09-23 21:11:49 · 20 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Marriage & Divorce

oh my god.. lol.. this is fcuking awesome!!

2006-09-23 21:09:17 · 13 answers · asked by whatever_dude™ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 21:08:34 · 10 answers · asked by ok 4 in Singles & Dating

OK people I really need help here. I've been seeing this guy for a few months. I came to a positive conclusion that we are wrong for each other. He is emotionally abusive and I really don't want that in my life. But, like any abuser, he knows how to sweet-talk and guilt-trip. I don't have any other friends or anyone to talk to, and I stupidly miss him if I'm away from him for a day or two. I told him that I don't want to see him anymore. More than once. He made a scene - how dare you and so on, including physically blocking the exit from me. I wanted to call police, but I didn't. Anyway, it is bad and disfuntional relationship. I know this when I'm by myself and when I can think straigt. But when he calls and asks for help like pick him up from the airport and such I just not strong enough to say no because he's asking nicely. And the whole thing goes on and on and on. Please, help. Tell me how to dump a guy effectively so the doesn't come back. Preferrably, without involving police.

2006-09-23 21:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Everybody's Favorite 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on this girl, her birthday is next week and i am working far away from where she is , should go back and surprise her or should i just just sent her flower by ordering it online? the cost of flying back would be around usd2000... where i would be able to go back a week after her birthday on company expense.... wat should i do??

2006-09-23 21:04:39 · 14 answers · asked by lamlieth 2 in Singles & Dating