I think it's just plain wrong.
2006-09-23 21:11:49 · 20 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because some women find it to be a turn on as if they feel like they are being chosen over someone who was closer to the guy at one point, then they find that all they are is a toy. They havent gained anything except a big lie. Married men dont leave their wives for the mistress 99% of the time and if they do then well we have all heard......once a cheater always........
2006-09-23 21:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is wrong. The boundries since the days before ‘free sex’ have changed. Sex is a personal right for everyone now, married or single. Some people do not put much value on a piece of paper, or even on commitment. Sometimes it is a single person who has never experienced the responsibilities that go along with marriage, or the pain of a broken family. The person who is married is shameful. Often married men ‘seek’ women to date, while wife and kids are at home. This is not an accidental office fling!
I for one would like to tell all young women who are this CHEAP to think about their extremely selfish behaviour. If is not OK for a married man to buy you drinks, or dinner in a romantic restaurant – remember he shares his life and his money with his FAMILY – you are taking from them! So ask him his this little moment together is alright with his wife – or is she at home phoning hospitals to find out if her husband has been hurt somewhere.
You could be helping that jerk to destroy lives, while you sit back and enjoy his attentions. Be cautious and DO NOT BELIEVE all that a divorced man tells you about his ex-wife either. Look for someone in your own age bracket and someone who hasn’t got a whole broken-hearted family hoping for him to come to his senses ! PLEASE TAKE THE HIGH ROAD !
2006-09-24 04:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS wrong. They are totally without morals or a heart for anyone except themselves....There are men that persue married women also. No thought to breaking up families or the fact that children will be hurt by their actions...of course the one doing the cheating on his husband or wife is half the problem too.
2006-09-24 04:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because hes probably coming on to them with them or giving out the wrong signals in the first place. Woman don't just go about pursuing someone that's not interested in them. Why would they even bother wasting their time?
Also bear in mind that, even in some situations the woman may not know that the man is married at all, its then up to the man to say hes married and not interested, and if he really loves and respects his wife and what they both have together, then he certainly will not be interested in anyone.
2006-09-24 10:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by haggispa2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with u. These types of women think that pursuing a married man is appealing because they can't have him and want to see if they can win him over. When they do, it gives them a boost of self esteem. When they don't, it makes them want him more.
Also, they think that married men are the good kind because he must be secure and the thought of having a fling with them without the total commitment makes these women feel safe. Frankly I think they have absolutely no class, not to mention dignity because they're willing to settle to be second best as these married men will seldom leave their wives for them. Of course, we can't put all the blame on them especially if the husband is also a willing participant. Remember, it takes two to cheat.
2006-09-24 04:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women or men that persue married people are completely immoral. Marriage is hard enough without constantly competing with outside forces. Saying that, it does take two!!
2006-09-24 04:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by boudicea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definatly is wrong to persue a married man.
The woman lacks morals, lacks judgment, lack self esteem.
The woman doesn't have self worth to have a man of her own.
Now...a man can be chased and NOT caught.
Women chase married men because they can.
2006-09-24 04:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually it's usually the married men that due the persueing. i have been dating a married man for two years and have seen how his so called wife treats him. i treat my dog better than she does him. married men are simply looking for the someone who cares for them instead of making them feel bad. plus the sex is a big bonus on both ends. for me a married man is someone who is not wanting to move into my house but is willing to help pay the mortgage. if my married boyfriend was to leave his wife for me then that would be his choice and i'd treat him like a king
2006-09-24 05:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by pulgita 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would say a lack of morals, low self esteem, the desire to have what one should not have, disrespect for the lives of others, lack of maturity, having yet to put themselves in the other woman's shoe and down right evil.
Notice that I don't even mention sex!
2006-09-24 04:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because they dont mind being second best or they have self esteem issues it isnt right no but it happens also some married men encourage it and its usually a younger naive woman who will hang on to his every word,this also works both ways.
2006-09-24 04:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋