Coz' it hard for me to believe in it?
Why is it possible, then? How can anyone let go so easily and have the heart to fall in love again?
2006-09-23 21:39:28 · 17 answers · asked by joy_chia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he/she is over the old relationship even before it ends, they can get together with someone else with no problem. They could have been messing around during the old relationship too ofcourse. Then again some people try to mend a broken heart with a new relationship but that rarely works and is mostly a mistake. Whatever the case is, don't worry about what other people do, just focus on yourself and dont rush things.
2006-09-23 21:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bastard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long your past relationship was and whether or not it was a good relationship. People don't just fall out of love, it takes time to happen and there may be a building resentment. If that building takes a considerable amount of time then it would be relatively easy to fall in love again quickly if the heart and mind are longing to feel again. Everyone has a different experience and all situations are different too. It depends on the circumstances.
2006-09-24 04:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about having the heart to fall in love again, but if someone is done wrong then it can be easy to let go quickly. That is from personal experience. As for getting into a new relationship so quickly after....It sounds to me like that person has issues about being alone.
2006-09-24 04:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they were the ones who broke off the relationship then they were already over it. They have already let go of the other emotionally or they wouldn't have broke it off in the first place. That is how it is easy for some people. Others feel that, as the old adage goes, "when you get bucked off you have to get right back on or you won't get on again". Does that make sense to you?
2006-09-24 04:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by rswdew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was no true love between them or he/she never loved him for real , it was just another boy/girlfriend to hang up with, or maybe he/she liked the other persson,but only liked.nothing more cause when u truly loved somebody u don't forget about that relationship so fast, this is love and u don't just let go so easily and falling in love it's harder
2006-09-24 04:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How strong was the past relationship? How long was it? If the relationship was a lengthy one with lots of problems, then that person was probably already ready to move on. If the relationship was of short duration then indecision and doubt was present.
2006-09-24 04:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how deep is the relationship. If it was very deep and intimate...should take longer, even years to get over. If it was just a fling, a night stand or a crush then should get over it in few weeks time.
Break-up happens for a reason and usually for the best. Get over it and move on.....
2006-09-24 04:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by winky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they were ready to move on before the relationship ended or they are in such pain that only falling in love (and getting laid) will help.
2006-09-24 04:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is no relationship in the first place. Only one party that think there is a relationship.
2006-09-24 05:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Clive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like that.....they stay with you till they finally find a replacement. That's when they come up with lame excuses like 'It's not your fault, it's not mine either. We are just incompatible.' Don't be too happy for their replacement girls though, they might be the next victims!
2006-09-24 06:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋